Question

[Cowgirl]

ok, so i have a question. do u think its right for a girl to ask a guy out?

*Cowgirl*

[Shane]

Sure it is, why would it not be?

Moved to Advice.

[Bob!]

Ya cant expect the blokes to do all the work.

Aint a 2 way relationship if one aint prepared to do what the other would do.

[Patriot1776]

I don't really see the big deal. In fact,I've noticed that guys often WANT the girl to make the first move. I suppose it all depends on the guy.

[bambizzle]

blatently it works both says

[rodgersgal]

I dnt really know..cant say i ever done it my self but i cant see any real big problem with it!

[Cowgirl]

Alright. another question. how do you tell if he likes you. I don't want to go and ask him if he doesn't even like me.

Cowgirl

[Mamfy]

Look at the signs. See if he's dropping hints like flirting, or see if he's being more friendly to you than any other girl. I think it's quite easy to tell if they like you someimes

[lozzy]

if he flirts with you and acts really nice to you

[pressure]

of course its alright

what times are we living in lol

[bambizzle]

i dunno why, but i think people are to conscious about these sorts of things. there was a time where nobody cared, and just went straight out and asked someone out not caring if the answer was no or not. these days are long gone though

[Mamfy]

YEah I agree. People take a while to askl people out or don't do it at all nowadays because they are scared of rejection or what they might say.,

[bambizzle]

yeah, stupid really

[Mamfy]

I know, I mean if you really like them, then surely it won't end up with rejection:S

[Da Chang Gang]

It doesn't really matter. Go for it.

You might get a yes. It doesn't really matter if the boys ask the girls out or the girls ask the boys. Lol, as long as someone askes someone out.

[Stormydayz]

ok, so i have a question. do u think its right for a girl to ask a guy out?

*Cowgirl*

Yeah but it gets pretty annoying if the girl ends up doing it every time!

[Mamfy]

I'm sure the guys get annoyed when they have to do it all the time though lol

[~sexy_biatch~]

Personally I wouldnt ask anyone out....im scared of rejection! This doesnt mean I have never felt like it though....infact nearly did 2 days ago!
But anyway back to the point:
Yeah go for it, what have you got to lose? He wont laugh at you....if hes mature he wont anyway!
Look at the signs, if its friendly flirting, or flirty flirty....trust me, there is a difference!!

[Cowgirl]

I feel so stupid cause I can't tell if its friendly flirty or flirty flirty. He acts like extremely nice and makes an effort to walk slow so I can catch up after history. And he makes somewhat of an effort to talk to me at least once during practice. But then he has been acting all weird this week like he's trying to avoid me. I don't know -- I get so confused really easily.

I got another question too. How should I ask him out? I will honestly say I've never been asked out by a guy before so I kinda don't know what I'm doing. Thanks for all the help. You all have been really helpful so far.

Thanks again

Cowgirl

[bambizzle]

build your confidence up, get him on his own, and open up your heart

[Mamfy]

Just tell him how you feel, that about works I reckon

[~sexy_biatch~]

you need some confidence girl!!
just go for it.

[MoozeManDude]

I dunno how old you are, that might make a difference. I've never askek a guy out before. See, everyone here thinks I'm really shy, coz I was til a few years ago, but I'm not now but my reputation kinda stuck. (What kinda reputation is that?) I don't think I can be that much help, even with the 'does he like you' bit, coz, again the reputation, means guys don't flirt with me, cept a couple of my mates taking the piss, but tha's not real. If you're outgoing, then I say go for it, but don't make it sound like an ultimatum. Try starting with "A group of us are going (wherever), wanna come?" And see how it goes from there. Good Luck!

[shaggy 2 dope]

you'll kno he likes you if he starts tryin 2 hang out with you more and if he gives you lots of hugs

PEACE

[Stormydayz]

Thats how it is usually going to be guyz are chickens i know it would be nice for them to once in a while though...

[melty_malty]

I'd never ask a fella out but I'd ask him to meet me no bother