Another form of Rejection

[pressure]

how would you feel if you got rejected by two ppl you loved in 2 weeks?

what would it do to you?

[bambizzle]

ill get back to you on that, it might actually happen...

[pressure]

ill get back to you on that, it might actually happen...

has happened to me,
how do you deal with that much pain?

[bambizzle]

i dont know, i probably wouldnt be happy for quite a long time

[pressure]

is it even worse when u get rejected by one because of the other ???????

[bambizzle]

probably, but as i said it hasnt happened yet. it just might do, thats all

[pressure]

this happened to anyone??

[~sexy_biatch~]

wow.
the hurt! that would be awful.
I kinda been through something like this....(damn ive been through everything me!) Anyway...
Im not gunna say, oh you will get over it in a few hours...cos thats not the case.
If that was me then I would just cry and cry for days! or hours... lol
I would probably ask one of my mates to listen...but it dont sound half as bad when you say it out loud, i would probs just tell a random person i dont talk to often!
It doesnt always help if you tell people though.
I would just try to laugh things off and find someone else to dwel over!
Its not easy, but it can be done ;)

[pressure]

i hope so
i wouldnt wish this amount of pain on anyone,not even my worst enemy !

i know im gona cry for a few days, gotta get meself togetehr before college starts again tho, cnt be thrown out fo crying again ! lol

[Mamfy]

Why? What;s happened?:S Do you want to talk to us about it?

This has happened to me, it's not a nice experience I can telly ou that!

[pressure]

Why? What;s happened?:S Do you want to talk to us about it?

This has happened to me, it's not a nice experience I can telly ou that!


well basically my ex dumped me and in my eyes hes made my newer ex (if tht makes sense) dump me
they are best friends i have to admit, they have been best mates for 9 years

its not a nice feeling at all

lil bit of advice for people

DONT GET TOO CLOSE TO ANYONE - they will only fuck you over, one way or another

[Mamfy]

OMG I thought it was all going well for you?!:O

I'm sorry to hear that! It just shows that sometimes relationships cause more problems then they are worth

[pressure]

this is very true

i thought it was all going well too, didnt realise how badly he would react to the news

but i guess some ppl are just destined to be alone for good !!

[Mamfy]

Join the club darling:D

[pressure]

who does so much shit happen at such a young age?

[Mamfy]

Because that's life I'm afraid, and by witnessing these things now, we know how to react when they happen again.

[pressure]

Because that's life I'm afraid, and by witnessing these things now, we know how to react when they happen again.


so many words of wisdom :)

thanks but i dont really want this to happen again lol

[Mamfy]

Me? Words of wisdom? Lol

I know you don't want it to happen again! But this way, you can prevent it from happening int he future as you might see it coming. Also, by this experience, you will be able to grow from it and be a stronger person, and work out what you really want in a relationship.

[pressure]

thanks for all that :)

jus gotta deal with the pain now lol

at least im not crying now lol

[Mamfy]

Don't mention it! I just hope you are happy:)

[pressure]

well that as it stands is a distant dream but im gona do my bloody best :)

[~sexy_biatch~]

mayeb the other guy still likes you (your newer ex)
he might have split with you just because of his best mate....its like saying would a girl go out with her best mates ex!

[pressure]

i duno if he likes me still but hey whatever, life goes on right people :)

[Mamfy]

IT sure does my friend

[pressure]

all i wana know now is where is it gona take me lol

[Mamfy]

I can't tell you that, It's all about the decisions you make and the routes you take.

[pressure]

yeah, from now on im gona think everything i do through and make sure its right for me

[Mamfy]

Good idea!

[~sexy_biatch~]

Just take life at a chance, live on the edge.....thats what im doing from now on...no more planning :D *writes no more planning in notebook*

[Duroxis]

Prob worst piece of advice in your eyes but mine I just go out and try have a good time and at least for that one night it'd feel somewhat better

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah, thats best, go have a good time THEN think of your future :)

[Wandering Soul]

hahahahaha sounds famililar. lemme tell ya what i did. ride it out. shrug it off. the one you are supposed to get with you will. (in about a years time) but hey look at what it got me. im engaged to be married so ride it out girl...(hopefully)

[pressure]

these guys are screwing with my feelings and as a result i am in complete pain now !!!!!!!
i hope he comes back to me, we are supposed to be together, i know we are !!!!!!

[Wandering Soul]

...
hmm
what does that mean (idoit's transltion: What happended)

[pressure]

what does what mean?
i wana be with him real bad
i could pour my heart out to him right now !!!!!
i really love him

[Wandering Soul]

see now just wait. cool off. breath. think. in time everything willl unfold as it should. you just have to be patient. (VERY FSCKIN PATIENT) ahem excuse that was just blowin off my own steam. umm yeah time patientance (i cant spell that)

[pressure]

so ur sayin give it time and...........whats is going to happen?

[Wandering Soul]

whatever is SUPPOSED to happen. i mean look at my situation same thing (except im a guy and they are girls) and eventually i got with the one i really wanted to. just bind your time. i mean me and my girl are goin good (with one or two MAJOR bumbs) but everything can be worked around it. so give it time and what is supposed to happen will. have faith

[pressure]

whatever is SUPPOSED to happen. i mean look at my situation same thing (except im a guy and they are girls) and eventually i got with the one i really wanted to. just bind your time. i mean me and my girl are goin good (with one or two MAJOR bumbs) but everything can be worked around it. so give it time and what is supposed to happen will. have faith


i duno how much more faith i have in me
i hope i get him, i want him

thanks xxx

[Wandering Soul]

dont get faith confused with hope. hope IS evil. faith is not hope. faith is to believe in someone will at least try and do what is right. hope is thinking he WILL do it right. (yeah i know im one cryptic son of a bitch)

[pressure]

well in tht case i have faith lol :)

[Conal]

Rejection i feel is hard to deal with, just like being rejected for a job accept ten times worse

However if rejection is common the less harsh it will feel. Well that is what i think anyway :P

[pressure]

nah havnt been rejected before, its kinda hard to deal with, duno how to for a start lol, but my life seems to be getting better

[Conal]

My life just seems to be heading in a downward spiral. I don't know how i can get back on the on the up hill :(

[pressure]

ur not the only one who cnt seem to get their life back on track

just try and be positive, i am

[xsummax]

how would you feel if you got rejected by two ppl you loved in 2 weeks?

what would it do to you?


Wow. I don't even really know! My best friend and I battle back and forth about things, but he really never understands what I mean when I say the things that I do, except he just gets angry and stuff. I annoys the crap out of me. I hope everything works out for you. Really, I do.

[pressure]

i ment rejected as in relationship wise, both boys i love/loved rejected me for one reason or another

it destroyed me but its been about 2 weeks sicne thts happened and iv stopped crying about it and im gettin on with my life, still hurts though always will i reckon

[Conal]

i ment rejected as in relationship wise, both boys i love/loved rejected me for one reason or another

it destroyed me but its been about 2 weeks sicne thts happened and iv stopped crying about it and im gettin on with my life, still hurts though always will i reckon

Love is close to the same feeling as insanity. I know its hard... my relationship fell to pieces the worst way possible. I still regret what happened that night. BUT that was 'meant' to happen, i feel it was fate. My relationship was just being resolved and we were happy and then it would break down. So if this carried on any longer then i would not have passed my GCSE's. She was very clever, but i struggled for grades. I would not be in college now if it wasn't for that night. So i feel that rejection is an oportunity for another chance.

So after that experience, i am mentaly hardened. and life is back to normal.

So don't waste time being upset over rejection. This is not just advice for you Pressure. It's for everyone...

Thanks
Conal

[Wandering Soul]

Insanity!?? Bull. the only emotion love can truly be compared to is hate. (however i will agree on te "FATE" method since i agree somethings are 'meant' to happen) if you love a person so much your threashold for hateing that person raises as a proportainal thing. in other words the more you love a person, the more your going to hate them if yall break up. and sometimes the love becomes so great, that the only way to let go of the love is through hate. i do not believe insanity is not a result of love, you have to be fsckin insane to love (that last part is a joke)

[pressure]

Insanity!?? Bull. the only emotion love can truly be compared to is hate. (however i will agree on te "FATE" method since i agree somethings are 'meant' to happen) if you love a person so much your threashold for hateing that person raises as a proportainal thing. in other words the more you love a person, the more your going to hate them if yall break up. and sometimes the love becomes so great, that the only way to let go of the love is through hate. i do not believe insanity is not a result of love, you have to be fsckin insane to love (that last part is a joke)


what u said about love and hate, is true

i loved my ex with all my heart and hes the one whos put me through all this and now i believe i hate him, i never thought i would but i think i do, does this help with getting over him???????

[Wandering Soul]

unfourtunatly, yes because hate is the sign that you are getting over the love you once shared with him. (damn you school teaching me psychology) anyways yes it does help but hate is never a good thing. however im not saying dont love. people who live without love are either scared scarred or stoic. (3 s's) and are quite unhappy or extremely happy with their life. eventually the hate will subside but that is time's job not yours.

[Conal]

actually i have to agree with you on that one... love and hate are close to each other...

[pressure]

its been about 3 weeks or so since EVERYTHING happened and i dont feel any better. i have days when i feel like, yeah i can tell them boht to fuck off out of my life but then when i talk tot hem i melt again !!. this is hard and it aint gona get any easier is it????

i hope it does, life sucks right now. iv lost everything iv ever wanted out of life !!