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amz_481
October 27th '05, 11:23 AM
Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months and my mate, kirsty, has been with hers for about the same. When i first met Kirstys boyfriend i really fancied him but he didnt really seem interested, so i got with his mate (my boyfriend). Me and some of my other mates have noticed that kirstys boyfriend has got a bit bored with her.

Everytime i see him now he always flirts with me and pinches my bum, i sent him a message by accident, which was supposed to go to my ex, asking him if he still fancied me, her boyfriend sent me one bak saying that he did fancy me an we should meet up for some fun,

I dont know what to do because i really like him and i think he feels the same
help!!!

luv amz
xxx

Mamfy
October 27th '05, 11:49 AM
Why are you asking an ex boyfriend if he fancied you, when you have a boyfriend, and you know your best friends boyfriend fancies you?

danster73
October 27th '05, 11:56 AM
ok, you need to do what you think is best. if your best mate is still dating this lad, then is one bit of fun worth risking your friendship. Its your choice. Friendship or one night stnd. Only you can chose.

amz_481
October 27th '05, 12:13 PM
Hes said hes gonna dump kirsty neway,
luv amz
xxx

pressure
October 27th '05, 09:59 PM
going through something similiar
if you are both single then go for it but if not, stop texting eachother and leave eachother alone until you are both free for something to happen

dont rush into anything you or he may regret

insideout182
October 27th '05, 11:34 PM
your makeing this up or your really stupid

~sexy_biatch~
October 28th '05, 07:34 AM
I thought you had a boyfriend?
So you text your ex to see if he fancied you?
arent you happy with your boyfriend or something?
You really need to think about what you really want, and think about your mates feelings.
firstly decide which one you likie, your boyfriend, your ex or your mates boyfriend.
If you decide its your mates boyfriend, be prepared to lose a mate.
Im sorry but thats one thing I would never never do....go after my mates boyfriend.
She probably trusts you.
And if you do end up going with your mates boyfriend.....what if he gets bored with you like he did your mate?
You need to think long and hard about what you are going to do.

Mamfy
October 28th '05, 07:35 AM
Exactly what I thought. I don't think it's worth losing a good mate over a guy who you probably won't spend the rest of your life with.

You need to sort out your priorities

~sexy_biatch~
October 28th '05, 07:37 AM
How old are you anyway?

Jessicar
October 28th '05, 02:17 PM
Right.
Its not worth it. You may like this guy, but you have been with your boyfriend for 4 months. And its your friends ex by the looks of things. You could end up losing more than you are gaining.

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