Please Help!

[Danegerous]

There is this girl that I really like. I have already asked her out and she said yes but now she says I have to ask her mum if it's ok. She says her mum is mean and I have to call her and ask her. I'm really nervous but I really like the girl and not sure what to say. Any advice?

[Bob!]

As long as shes sayin that because she's really aprehensive about what her parents will do and not just messing you about then if she's worth it to ya and its the only way, go fer it dude.

You can either call as she said, or just go right down and request to speak in person, that shows that you have balls and you care enough to do that at no matter what the cost to yerself, might generate some respect, might not.

If ya do end up speakin then just tell the truth. Basically something like you want to be with her, you really like and admire the person she is, and therefore all that you want is to make her happy and be able to be the one to keep her safe. That will give her some scope on the sorta person you are, and a good impression is best.

Whatever the mum says thats about the best you can do (if you really feel that way), and when speakin try not to be too hesitant or nervous, show that you're prepared to do anything for this, but dont be too demanding about it either. Show that you're speaking to her not because you want to show defiance, you're doing it because you're asking for her support, for the good of your girl you're hopin to be with.

Hell even if it dont work (there are some strict parents out there), then you've showed the lass that you care that much that you spoke to her mum, braved it and gave it your best, for her. Then she might realise that you're worth it too, even if it does mean going against her parents.

Might be good advise might be not, it was sorta what I was gunna do once but it was the dad who might have not liked the idea, but the relationship ended before I got the chance to try.

So all I can say is if its worth it to ya and long as yer doin it for the right reasons then go for it, you'd be doing nothing wrong and however it turns out, at least you'll have tried.

Edit: Unfortunatley I just found out yesterday the girl i mentioned is now goin with a fkin 21 yr old guy, she's 15, her dad already knows and aint even bothered, so I guess some people are just worth more then others, just bad havin that confirmed lol.

Either way it might be ok for u, if u do try then I wish you luck and hope it turns out ok, just make sure she isnt messin u about.