What Attracts You?

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

what attracts you to a lad/ lass ?

personally i like eyes .. thats a main thing! and hair ... and also personality .. humor.

[Horatia]

Personality and intelligence.

There's no aspect within physical attributes which causes me to become allured to anyone. Save for weight and skin shade, that is - but that's related to personality as I simply find it difficult to tolerate those who are languid procrastinators, those who devour too much food, and other generally just lazy individuals. With skin it’s simply those who purposely tan that I have a smite against; why toast yourself for physical appearance? If it’s a natural unintended tan I lack much to abhor against it, but for various reasons I still prefer the pale.

[xxrachxx]

eyes, i fall for them lol, then personality and humour, but it is easy to make me laugh anyway

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

lol hehe me 2 i laff at owt! lol :P i really fink eyes is one of the best features bedies personality lol

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

The way they present themselves.

If they shy back in the corner because of a lack of self confidence, then I know things probably won't work out. I'm way too outgoing for someone like that. If they're right in the middle of the action and being themselves, then I'm all for it.

[manutd 4 ever]

eyes...

[~sexy_biatch~]

eyes.
hair.
BELLY ....i love bellies
humour n personallity goto b a high point!
the rough look is nice aswel ;)
cant be duin wi some1 reyt posh

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

:P kaye!! lol hehe ... well eyes r ya best :P

[~sexy_biatch~]

tehe! becci :O a got a job tehe
eyes r propa sexsi on a lad
THE SEX

[manutd 4 ever]

eyes.
hair.
BELLY ....i love bellies
humour n personallity goto b a high point!
the rough look is nice aswel ;)
cant be duin wi some1 reyt posh

you mean 6 pack? or bit of a wobbly belly?

[~sexy_biatch~]

not wobbly.
6 packs r nice but i just like a firm stomach. 6 pack is a bonus as long as its not 2 6 packy!

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

as long as theres a bit of muskle there! lol (i did spell it rite 2) :P

[~sexy_biatch~]

int it muscle? lol
yeh i hate a lot ov muscle tho it luks fake n unsexi like ya on sterroids or sumat

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

yeah n no it aint muscle its muskle .. say the word muskle! :P hehe

[xxrachxx]

i say muskle lol,. it aint only you dont worry

[Entice]

Confidence, my last crush i never talked to him, lol, but i liked him cause of the way he carried himself, like he was so sure the world would lov him =D

[Mamfy]

Hair definetely and his dress sense, also, the way a guy is laid back and fun to be with attracts me a lot, i like people i can have fun with:)

[manutd 4 ever]

not wobbly.
6 packs r nice but i just like a firm stomach. 6 pack is a bonus as long as its not 2 6 packy!


c'mon make up your mind lol!:D

[~sexy_biatch~]

lol i cant help it i jus like the perfect stomach!
is that a crime

[kattylover]

Haha...yeah...a perfect stomach would be nice. Think about it? having to sleep with a flabby stomach. Anyway, hi! Im new.

[~sexy_biatch~]

ellow! welcome to the site....

[Mamfy]

Haha...yeah...a perfect stomach would be nice. Think about it? having to sleep with a flabby stomach. Anyway, hi! Im new.
just make sure she doesnt see the thread about cats......:Slol

[Jessicar]

what attracts me to a lad;
for looks, which arent too important anyway, but if we are on about looks, then their hair, and eyes. I also have a thing about tall guys:| but thats not really important.I also have a thing for emo guys. theyr just yummy :P
and in personality: Sweet, funny...and of course, loveable:P

[~sexy_biatch~]

" loveable " lol....yeh goto av a bit o meat on em *meowww*

[*fender.chiq*]

Hmmm... well, that's kind of a tough question for me, because I can fall for any guy really.

Mainly, I like my guys to have a good sense of humour, simelar to mine (no, I'm not being big headed there, so shush :P). I couldn't cope with watching endless episodes of crappy American sitcoms and stand-ups whilst curled up on the sofa, teehee. I adore British comedy and .. dry humour I suppose. And I like to laugh, so it would make me happy :)

He would have to have at least a decent taste in music, because then we could go to gigs together and be coupley and have fun :) Afterall, if we had nothing in common tastes at all, then there would be nothing to go to or do together that we both enjoy.

If I was going off looks though, I generally prefer guys to have brown or black hair. Though I have been known to think gingers are pretty hot now and again, heh. And I have a big thing for sharp jawlines. They're beautiful. Men who have them really sharp jawlines, I can't help but look like a goldfish for a while. Teehee. I love eyes with something about them too. Preferably big eyes. And I think like, bright blue or green are amazing, but I'll settle for deep, meaningful brown for now :P And emo guys are pretty.. shexy. Hah.

But, back to personality.. He has to like me for who I am. I wouldn't force myself to change for a boy who could potentially leave me soon after, but anyway, it's better to stay who you are. And of course, he'd have to laugh at me XD I love it when people laugh at me, because it makes me happy too.

So.. I guess it might be a while before I find the 'perfect' guy for me, personality alone.. O.o

[Bob!]

Fishnets... ;)

nar only messin there lol. (good addition tho) :D

Tbh i think its the whole person, once ya know em enuf.
Even theyre bad points give ya summat to work towards and conquer.
Fer me anyways lol.

[*fender.chiq*]

I'll shove a pair in the cd drive for ya later Bob XD

[kattylover]

just make sure she doesnt see the thread about cats......:Slol

What about the cats?? Tell me please..im lost.:confused:

[~sexy_biatch~]

thers a thread on cats. bout how much every1 hates them

[Mamfy]

ah well-looks like shes already seen it AND posted in it:D

[claire]

eyes, smile, hair, at first, but they gotta have a good personality.
i like the bad boy image atm aswell, altho good boys can be sweet, u cant have a good boy all the time!

[Oxide]

As long as the girl can think for herself (ie. she doesn't do whatever her friends tell her and she's not scared to have an opinion) and a sense of humour, I'm not bothered too much what they look like. Good looks are a plus, but not the most important thing.

[Mamfy]

Finally someone who puts personality first:D

[*fender.chiq*]

I put personality first! .. Mleh.

[Mamfy]

no i meant a guy! lol, us girls usually put personality first anyway-i think:S

[Patriot1776]

This my seem crazy, but the girl I love's name was what attracted me to her. Looks and personality came afterward.

[hevence]

what names do u like?

[Princess of Thieves]

i love the names "Jamie, James, Nathen, Danny and Loi!

I love guys who have short dark hair, are tall, deep eyes and a nice jaw line.

[Drunk_druid]

lol, i could never go out with a moody b*atch. They hav to laugh and know how to hav fun, i put personality first but no guy can admit that looks dont matter, however if youve a great personality then itll basically make up for looks in my opinion, also you have to be vaguely intelligent and preferably brunette for me :D.

[kattylover]

ah well-looks like shes already seen it AND posted in it:D

Haha..yeah...

[kattylover]

Yes..its true...most of the boys in the world go for looks. Personality is the best. A great personality covers everything. But eyes are what attracts me.:)

[Patriot1776]

what names do u like?

This is also wierd, but Anastasia is probably the only name that I am really attracted to. I can't find myself falling in love with someone who doesn't have that name. Pretty wierd, huh?

[Jessicar]

To be honest, (iv already posted here, but im posting again) personality is most important. And thats all people should really care about. (not judging anyone or anything though) But sadly, a lot of the time its not the case, and people get more attracted to the good looking ones, and leave the others out. because when someone is good looking, they have more appeal than the ones with a nice personality at first. To be attracted by personality only, you have to get to know that person first, so its harder. Whereas the really really hot people, with a really nice personality, are taken first usually. Thats why people think they have to look nice to attract someone, because the good looking people are the ones who attract people first often enough.
None of that probably made any sense but i know what i mean, lol

Edit: To put it into a few words, attraction is mainly being attracted by someones looks, because personality often doesnt show on the outside. whereas the different type of attraction, is when you get to know someone and fall for their personality

[kattylover]

I do understand you Jessicar. Well..you are right. Looks are temporary. You get bored with it easily. And when you grow older, you are not beautiful anymore. However, your personality always stays with you even when you die. A person with a great heart will always stay beautiful. A person with good looks can never be beautiful forever.

[agnomination]

sense of humour, laidback, friendly and rebel aspect is always nice

physically - nice arms *yummy* height, not too scrawny [dont want to think ill break the boi] and the over all rough/tough sorta look because i cant stand pretty bois.

my latest acquisition has a nipple ring - i dont know how to answer whenever he asks about it because - well i dont know about it... i dont mind eyebrow piercings but nipple is a bit too much i think [says the tattooed girl]

[Bexican]

personality is most definitely the most important... and the ability to laugh at silly things...

but i also like long hair... theres just somethign about it... and pretty eyes.. dark skin.. thats about it.. but no pot bellys or nuffin. nice and toned eh?

[manutd 4 ever]

i think the lasses on here should post a pic of their eyes as its their best feature...

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

This is also wierd, but Anastasia is probably the only name that I am really attracted to. I can't find myself falling in love with someone who doesn't have that name. Pretty wierd, huh?


Anastasia is one of my best friends names.

I love her name...Anastasia Valentine

[Mamfy]

wow that truly is an amazing name!:D

i will post a pic of my eye if everyone else will?

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I will once I get my camara back.

[Patriot1776]

Anastasia is one of my best friends names.

I love her name...Anastasia Valentine

The girl I love's name is Anastasia Morrison.

Not only does she have a great personality, but she is also attrative. I love her long black hair and the fact that she is my same height when everyone else I know is half my size. Her voice is also wonderful,soft when she needs to be firm when she needs to be. I also love how she is willing to stand up with when she feels something is wrong. She was undoubtedly the most compassionate girl in the class.

Great,now you've put a tear in my eye "sob"

[Mamfy]

aww so sweet:D

[Patriot1776]

Funny how I could say this in front of you guys, but I couldn't build up courage to say it in front of her.

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

It's amazing how personalitys can come out over the internet.

No fear of how people feel about you, I think.

That was amazingly sweet...and she's a lucky girl to have such a sensative guy.

[Mamfy]

definitely, i couldnt agree more:)

[Patriot1776]

SHe's not exactly my girl. I never really started anything with her. Wish I had though. I'm finding myself to be more romantic than I originally thought.

[Mamfy]

i see your true colours, shining through, i see your true colours, and thats how i love you so dont be afraid, to let them show, your true colours, true colours, beautiful, like a rainbow:D

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Hahahaha!!

I was just humming that song.

[Patriot1776]

One problem though. Its going to take a month or so before I will be able to communicate with her. She mo9ved to South Carolina so I sent a letter to her, but the U.s. Postal service is so concentrated on Iraq right now that its going to take about a month before I will receive a response.

[Mamfy]

sorry i felt musical!!

distance makes the heart grow fonder, you have to remember that:)

[Patriot1776]

I will admit that the fact that she moved just makes me love her more.

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I'm adding hands to my list.

C'ha.

[Gun Nut]

I've fallen for Avril Lavigne, were going on a date tomorrow, she likes my package.

[Jessicar]

Oh god....Avril Lavigne gives me nightmares.

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I've fallen for Avril Lavigne, were going on a date tomorrow, she likes my package.


I have to disown you now.


I'm terribly sorry.

[Patriot1776]

I'll also add hair. I myself prefer long black hair if you haven't figured it out yet.

[Gun Nut]

I have to disown you now.


I'm terribly sorry.

hahahaha, fiiiiiiiiiine, no love from me to you then anymore =(

[Patriot1776]

I'll also add figure to my list.

[Gun Nut]

a tractor beam attracts me.

[Mamfy]

easy to please:D

[BleedBlack]

sense of humour, personality, sexy (hehe) and muscles r a bonus!

[*fender.chiq*]

I've fallen for Avril Lavigne, were going on a date tomorrow, she likes my package.

:| Omfg.

[Patriot1776]

Aren't you a little old to be pursuing unlikely fantaises?

[Gun Nut]

I can but dream, hell I have her poster, shes there in spirit

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

lol ...

[ReAnImAtEd]

conversation...its a wierd 1 i kno but bein able 2 talk 2 sum1 4 hours without but 1 awkward silence...thats gr8 :D

[Pearson]

I like, a nice smile and nice hair

Im not that big a fan of fatness, but its all good. cant be 2 picky.

but personalitys is the best, gotta be able to hold a convo

[bella]

the hair is essential for me if he has good hair than i'm totally attracted but theres always exceptions ;) and he just has to be a nice sweet guy

[BleedBlack]

conversation...its a wierd 1 i kno but bein able 2 talk 2 sum1 4 hours without but 1 awkward silence...thats gr8 :D

i agree..if u cant keep up a decent convo with someone u got nothing..

[kattylover]

Being yourself is also what attracts me. Cause it makes them look natural and cool.:)

[Stephanie]

I'm adding hands to my list.

Phew...so I'm not the only one. I find attractive hands and arms on a guy to be really sexy!

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Mmmhmm.

I adore good looking hands and arms. It's kind of the first thing I look at, to be honest.

[random-lemons]

Blue eyes always attracts me, and shaggy brown hair!

[Stephanie]

Mmmhmm.

I adore good looking hands and arms. It's kind of the first thing I look at, to be honest.

Me too!!

[Pearson]

Personality and intelligence.

There's no aspect within physical attributes which causes me to become allured to anyone. Save for weight and skin shade, that is - but that's related to personality as I simply find it difficult to tolerate those who are languid procrastinators, those who devour too much food, and other generally just lazy individuals. With skin it’s simply those who purposely tan that I have a smite against; why toast yourself for physical appearance? If it’s a natural unintended tan I lack much to abhor against it, but for various reasons I still prefer the pale.

jesus wept.... Why do you speak like your from a shakespeare play?

[Mamfy]

Heh you're funny!:D

[Bob!]

jesus wept.... Why do you speak like your from a shakespeare play?

Answer:

http://www.inkcycle.co.uk/images/ess188big.gif

[Xxleigh leighxX]

personality, sense of humour, up for a laugh

[jay.D]

smile.. most definitely her smile =) the number one on my list

[zodiak]

I go by EVERYTHING. The lips. The hair. the nose. The eyes. the ass. THe boobs. BUt mainly personality.

BUT....if the girl was flat-chested, I wouldn't date her. It just doesnt look right when girls are flat. Even if the girl was nice, I still wouldnt date her.

[KathyN]

Nice personality and eyes.

[Tim]

nice personality, gd looking

[Tami]

^^tim likes 15 year olds lol^^




EYELINER!!

[~Wayne~]

How'd you know?

[Goxxipgurl]

Eyes are my first attraction to guys.
Also personality matters.

[♥PrincessAlice♥]

eyes lol think i have bit of a eye fetish they have to have good eyes or i no like lol

[hottbabe4unow]

well first a good sense of humor, treats me like a princess, is hott and of couse for good sex a big dick to fuck me as hard as possible

[Gemrlou]

Laugh, hair, eyes, and arms [=

[emo-bass-rocker]

eyes....purdy blue eyes that glint when they hit the light.
xXx<3xXx :i heart u O_O

[tf_arl_90]

I like the nice guys. The cute ones, the ones that make me smile. I can't be with someone I can't trust, or someone who can't trust me. I usually feel comfortable trusting the ones who are always there for me and show me they care. Who would have thought?

Physically, everybody's different. I really don't have an answer other than...as long as he doesn't smell bad.

[Superman12]

Well obviously their looks first and foremost. Anyone who says that they dont care about looks is talking bullshit! Then someone who makes me laugh and that I can get on with without having loads of arguments, etc. Oh and someone that lets me see my mates and I can go out without her going mental at me

[tf_arl_90]

Anyone who says that they dont care about looks is talking bullshit!

I agree. If there is no physical attraction at all, it probably won't work out. However, it shouldn't be the *only* type of attraction either.

Honestly, who in a relationship thinks their partner is ugly? Most are just afraid of saying, "I need to be physically attracted to them" because there's a possibility of being called shallow for that.

[chocolatepocky]

I think its a mix of everything.

With the physical stuff, what is most attractive is prob nice eyes or lips or overall build? I don't like my guys to be fully built but defined? But that's not really important, average looks is really enough if the guy has a great personality.

By great personality I mean someone nice, considerate, fun to talk to, good sense of humour and someone I can trust with my secrets, can talk to, laugh with, cry with...

In other words, someone I'm totally close to as a friend... and then I fall in love. Lol



I agree. If there is no physical attraction at all, it probably won't work out. However, it shouldn't be the *only* type of attraction either.

Honestly, who in a relationship thinks their partner is ugly? Most are just afraid of saying, "I need to be physically attracted to them" because there's a possibility of being called shallow for that.

That's totally true... also, usually its easier to actually want to get to know a person because you're physically attracted to them first...

[Aries]

Basically Daniel Radcliffe or Elijah Wood types - nice dark hair, pretty blue eyes and fair skin - makes me go weak at the knees! :i heart u Oh and a nice personality. Can't stand pervy know-it-alls. Someone who is kind, sensitive, sweet and romantic! *sighs*

[Pezza]

Hair attracts me. And body, of course. I don't like short and fat girls!!! Also, i don't like stupid girls. I like smart ones.

[kristina_39]

well i agree with pezza .. im a country girl so i like the bigger build guys tho.. havent dated too many light hair guys so that goes to show i like the darker hair... brown eyes.. only dated a few with blue and one with green.. typically i like brown eyes.. they have to be taller than me.. im 5"11. so they have to be at least 6foot. i like guys who knows what to do.. when it comes to simple things like fixn cars.. in my case trucks... doing yard work and can carry a steady job. i dont care how much you make.. peoples lived bein poor before... if you have a steady income and your bills are on time and paid.. that shows me that you are responsible. there for if the relationship progresses i know if you'll be ready for anything that comes at you. i like the ones who are smart. tall...dark hair.. brown eyes and built big.. thats SEXY!!!!!!!!

[-nameless-]

what is it about a girl that guys are attracted too?
what looks (hair colour, etc)?
what characteristices (funny, shy, etc)?
any other things (peircings, tattoos, etc)?
any particular style?
what's your perfect girl like?

...out of interest..

=]

[crashnburn2722]

id have to say my perfect girl would have to be sweet, have a sense of humor, hair color doesnt matter, but i got a thing for redheads haha, a little bit of shyness makes her seem more innocent, and innocence is something ive always admired, umm, the only style restriction would be she cant dress like shes stuck up, i mean suits are a HUGE no-no. that prettymuch sums it up

[Jimbob]

Almost every guy is going too see this thread and not be completely honest.

The majority will say its all about personallity and the majority of them people will be talking crap.

For me personally, its always nice to have a good looking girl on your arm, but... if you don't choose someone with a personallity too, it soon gets boring. Sometimes I've gone more for looks, sometimes I've gone more to personality and every now and again, I think I've only ever found one person with a perfect ballance of both.

I've usually found that once you get to know someone and you start to fall for them, you no longer care about looks anyway, because no matter how rough they look, in your eyes, they always look beautiful. Guys who have girlfriends will know that when you tell them they look beautiful they never agree though.

Unfortunately though, there are a lot of people who are genuinly out to just get what they can and not really care about the woman. And they often make out like they are nice to start off with, but don't treat their women very well.

[imlilanglnot]

Physical -
Bright eyes.
Cute smile.
Nice arms. [Like, slightly muscular - a ton of muscle is gross looking.]
Tall. [atleast 5'10" - I'm 5'8"]

Personality wise -
A great sense of humor.
Fun-loving.
Slightly cocky.
Atleast somewhat intelligent.
Is passionate about something. [Everyone needs atleast one thing they love to do.]

[phantom13]

looks: Smile (most important), reasonably thin but NOT a twig, boobs, butt, long hair, short
Personality: Rational (ie. doesn't get pissed for no reason, if she's upset with someone she explains why, not passive agressive), KIND, cute, nerdy, doesn't gossip or start rumors or complain about people behind their back, self-confident
Other: Modest but still proud of her body, piercings except in the ears are gross

thats all i can think of for right now, my gf is my perfect girl. :-)

and Jimbob's advice is good

[Celi]

Personality wise they have to challenge me. A lot of my guy friends try and they can't win an argument against me. Or I want to talk about politics, or other world problem and not all of them even know what I'm talking about. I can say a guy is attractive, but I never liked someone who hasn't talked to me. He has to be able to make me laugh, have confidence, respect me and he has to be intelligent. Someone I can have fun with and never get bored with.

Physical. He has to be taller than me which isn't hard because I'm 5ft 2in. I don't really care about hair color as long as it complements him. I do have this thing for black hair. Colored eyes are always a plus, but if he has regular brown it's okay. Honestly I have taken an interest in different types of guys, from emo, rock, to docker guys to guys in suits. He has to dress nice because that what makes my head turn. Fantastic smile

[Huntseat]

Hi! I have never had a boyfriend, (except in the 3rd grade but that doesnt count) anywho I was wondering what all you guys find attractive in a girl? Is it their clothes, hair, looks or what? Thanks

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Just shake your ass in their face and guys drool like little puppy dogs and run after you, which is unfortunantely my problem getting rid of them and they still don't get the hint, and I haven't even shook my ass in their face yet.
But yeah all guys are dogs.

[Innamorata]

So not true.

[Jimbob]

Just shake your ass in their face and guys drool like little puppy dogs and run after you, which is unfortunantely my problem getting rid of them and they still don't get the hint, and I haven't even shook my ass in their face yet.
But yeah all guys are dogs.
Thats most possibly one of the most stupidest, yet funniest things I've ever heard, but it did indeed make my day :)

Not all guys are just out to get some ass, and not all guys are after a tart who has to shake her ass to get attention :) Maybe you think that all guys are dogs because the methods you use to attract them are obviously going to attract the complete twats just out for what they can get.

A girl shakes her ass at me, but obviously isnt a nice person... I'm not going to go after her, I'm going to feel sorry for her.

[Darts]

Jimbob is SO right lol.

Sweetest sin, what with your 'I'm so rich' and 'I have to beat guys off with a stick' attitude I must say you are seeming like a bit of an eejit.

[phantom13]

Hi! I have never had a boyfriend, (except in the 3rd grade but that doesnt count) anywho I was wondering what all you guys find attractive in a girl? Is it their clothes, hair, looks or what? Thanks

Its mostly an attitude, and persistence. Like having confidence and knowing that you're something worth chasing. Also, being bubbley, friendly, and kind is huge. Guys aren't going to go after a girl thats always being crabby or frowning when they see them. But don't fake being happy, just be genuinely happy to be with that guy. Confidence is the biggest thing. Don't be obsessive about diet stuff or dress slutty, becuase they will notice that you're trying to hard. Don't EVER settle for a guy who wants sex because you don't think you can get a 'nice' guy. Never true. But nicer guys are usually more shy, so you have to wait a little longer.

[Innamorata]

Jimbob is SO right lol.

Sweetest sin, what with your 'I'm so rich' and 'I have to beat guys off with a stick' attitude I must say you are seeming like a bit of an eejit.

Understatement!

[Darts]

I feel that understatements work pretty well here in the sense that I'd feel guilty if I said anything worse lol.

[Darts]

Just shake your ass in their face and guys drool like little puppy dogs and run after you, which is unfortunantely my problem getting rid of them and they still don't get the hint, and I haven't even shook my ass in their face yet.
But yeah all guys are dogs.

Also, and I am not above using posts from different threads for advice purposes, maybe they don't get the hint because you flash your boobs at them, etc etc, and in 'friends with benefits' situations its kinda hard to know where you stand (see 'rate your hornyness level' thread in Sexual Advice). Just a thought.

[COLTON]

For me personally, its always nice to have a good looking girl on your arm, but... if you don't choose someone with a personallity too, it soon gets boring. Sometimes I've gone more for looks, sometimes I've gone more to personality and every now and again, I think I've only ever found one person with a perfect ballance of both.

I've usually found that once you get to know someone and you start to fall for them, you no longer care about looks anyway, because no matter how rough they look, in your eyes, they always look beautiful. Guys who have girlfriends will know that when you tell them they look beautiful they never agree though.

.

I agree a lot with him on that one.

[Lady_La]

Apart from good looks, what would make you feel that "ooh" (this is for guys about girls)

[josh101]

Ok...well i love this girl...not because of her looks...but her personality...being around her...and feeling the best you could ever feel....wen u hug her u get a tingle in your stomach....you want a kind caring girl who doesnt laugh at the silly little things, but cares about you and trusts you!!! In my opinion anyway!

[Leon]

Someone who's fun, caring and shares my interests

[Rashella]

Someone who makes me laugh. And i could trust.

[jess]

Someone with a big engined, beautiful motorbike :P

[J-Dawg520]

a girl who shares the same interests as me, is fun to be around.

[patunox]

Well. I know you said apart from physical, but... physical is a kind of big part for me. EYES, mainly.

aside from that... that she likes good books. Same music as me (I'm VERY picky), or... that we can talk for a long time without running out of things to say.

[miss foxy]

Me and my m8ts were on the way to school and askin guys wat they love in a woman also do they like blonde hair blue eyes?????????? what do u like as in look or whatever!!!!! do u get to know a girl befor going out or just see she has a nice face and just aks on the spot???????????????


And girl what do u think as well

[iaxa]

hire? not sure that is a word.

[miss foxy]

sz I will edit it sz!!!!!!!!!!

[Tim]

defo get to a grl be 4 u go out with her, u dnt just go out with sum1 cause thy lk gd, a gd personality needs to go with it =)

[miss foxy]

rrrrrrrrrr thats so sweet and what about the blond blue eyes thing?????????

[♥PrincessAlice♥]

where abouts you from in sheff?

[Kate]

defo get to a grl be 4 u go out with her, u dnt just go out with sum1 cause thy lk gd, a gd personality needs to go with it =)

Marry me!

[Tim]

rrrrrrrrrr thats so sweet and what about the blond blue eyes thing?????????

wat about blonde hair and blue eyes, tht doesn't matter to me whether there brunette or blonde or wat colour eyes thy got. its about overall lks but more importantly now i consider the personality =)

[VampyrMaggot]

Marry me!
awwwwwwww

[~Wayne~]

Everyone says that but you ain't gunna like someone if they look like back of a bus now are ya :/

P.s I also think 1 question mark suits.

[Tim]

yeah wayne thats true, of course a person has to be good looking, its getting both personality and looks thats the tricky part.

[miss foxy]

where abouts you from in sheff? I live around about town!!!!!!!!!!:D

[miss foxy]

wat about blonde hair and blue eyes, tht doesn't matter to me whether there brunette or blonde or wat colour eyes thy got. its about overall lks but more importantly now i consider the personality =) OMG that is sooo sweet!!!!!!!!!!:D:D:D

[miss foxy]

wat about blonde hair and blue eyes, tht doesn't matter to me whether there brunette or blonde or wat colour eyes thy got. its about overall lks but more importantly now i consider the personality =) were do u live in sheffiled just askin:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D

[Innamorata]

I don't like blonde hair and blue eyes.

Unless it's Avril :/

[miss foxy]

well I have blonde hair and blue eyes but I dont like it i want to have my hair red but my m8ts say I cant

[Innamorata]

Why not? Red hair is nice.

[miss foxy]

thats wat I said to them but know!!!!!!!!!!! well my friend has pink hair

[Innamorata]

Haha. I have black hair with pink bits in.

[Bob!]

Why not? Red hair is nice.

*Used to have quite a weakness to a cuteh redhead. :o

And I don't think there is a definate "perfect" person for people as every person ya meet is different, everyone has their own good and bad points and so on an ya just havto weigh those up.

However the number of percieved "good" points is just personal preference and ya might actually meet someone whose the complete opposite of what ya normally like, but ya attracted to em all the same bcause theyre good but in different ways then what ya used to, so I think it just depends on how ya percieve the person when ya get to know em properly, weighing up all the points like personality, looks, ambition and all the rest. Which traits mean the most is also personal preference but for mesen I see someone as looking nice if they BE nice so ya can guess which is the most important.

[Innamorata]

Yes, Yoda.

[Emmax22]

what attracts you to guys/girls?

i am personally attracted to guys who are very outgoing, funny, nice and caring and who care enough about you to get to know you as a person instead of just thinking about sex. i have always been a sucker for "bad boys" but i also like skaters too.

[Shane]

I read it, thanks for the love.

[Innamorata]

Isn't there another thread that's nearly exactly the same somewhere?

[Emmax22]

lol i have no idea. im new, so probably. haha

[Innamorata]

Well the search function always comes in handy.

[xMissIzzyx]

Yay, I have extra love.

[EceYenii]

Ohh ii luvvv funny guys for life!!!
ii luvv anything that will make me laugh..
thats why ii think,ii have a crush on BORAT =$
*giggles*

[Bob!]

Well the search function always comes in handy.

So does the merge, rawr.

Anyways there ya go peeps, loadsa pages to look through on it.

[Innamorata]

Lol, well done Bob.

[kiingofrnb]

i luv eyes. Not just any color eyes but the grey eyes or dark dark brown eyes. They drive me crazy. Expecially if they are those glossy shiny eyes thatt luk so innocent in the girls. I love that.

[MysticFaith07]

i don't know y but the color of their skin i like the dark colored boy like italians, Puarto Ricans, but i don't the skin too dark but i hate white boys lol sorry guys no ofeense but light and dark skins are turn offs and middle colors are hot....i know i'm odd

[fraggled]

Well the search function always comes in handy.

Wait ... Hold on ... Theres a search function?

[Bob!]

The textbox at the top right that says "Search...." in it.

Interface design dude! look for teh labels. :P

[Daniella™]

They must have common sense and intelligence.

[xxxrealxxx]

like physical thing???eyes?nose?what??
and why?

[Nirvana_rox]

Urm ill answer anyway:P

her ass :D

[timswfc]

big tits and blonde hair

[sarahgirl_88]

boys ur so shallow, as a bi girl lol .. ill say..
personality. eyes. lips. laughs. giggles. smiles.

[Bob!]

boys ur so shallow
We don't all share that view. :P

[lucille]

We don't all share that view. :P

Sure!

[Kate]

Bob's very traditional in his views, arent you lad.
He likes long haired curvy girls xD

[fraggled]

ya, im traditional too, I like nekkid girls.

[Shakedown]

lmao! Hmm yea i gonna agree but assuming this is pre-stripping i wud have to say eyes and smile!

[BiZNicK]

Bob likes the fat chicks...

its like 3 chicks in 1 !!

[UglyBella123]

personality attracts me 2 a guy or gal

[Kate]

Bob likes the fat chicks...

its like 3 chicks in 1 !!

You are assuming curvy is fat?
Oh, wait till Bob reads this, faggot.

[lucille]

For me to be attracted to someone, a few glasses of vodka, a tequilla shot and a penis is usually all it takes.

[van_hooligan]

nice personality, can actually have a good laugh,kinda cute(maybe) can't be like really fat i guess and the longer the hair the better....i just don't like girls with shaved heads

[Gemrlou]

My new attraction is bikers, not the old hairy ones, but the young ones.
Or guys with tattoos.
YUM!

[nymph]

i keep trying to figure out what attracted me to my guy....well honestly i knew he like me and i really wanted a bf so i decided i'd date him till i got bored.
only thing was that i feel in love with him and now never want to let him go...luckyily he feels the same way.
i love his personality and his sweetness and how he is such a gental man and that he is respectful to everyone. that and we have a ton in common and just as much not in common. he is adventurous and spoils me rotten...our relationship is never boring or stuck in a rut and we just fit together

[Helena]

The intelligence most of all - looks aren't that important really, but I like boys with blond hair - they're soooooo cute. Well, most of them anyway...

[Infamy]

A man who's a snob. I dunno. I find it HOT. Because I know that they are not flirty.
Smart ofcourse. Hhmm.. NEAT!! Gentleman. Fashion sense.

&& ofcourse. good looking. I love asian guys. lol.

BlackHair rocks! I love koreanos! <3 lmfao.

[immalover]

I dig guys who can have some balls and make the first move. Physically, I like tall big guys. It's weird, but I have the sort of guys I like to look at and the ones I like to date lol Ones I date are not necessarily muscley, and ones I like to look at (of course) are muscley. A turn off is a guy who is smaller than me in all ways. >_>

[HollisterBabe]

PERSONALITY!
And a nice body!

[Jimbob]

Someone with a big engined, beautiful motorbike :P

You shallow person :P