I need an opinion from kids my own age.

[HunnyBunches]

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[Patriot1776]

I don't really know how you should handle this, but I will tell you that everyone else has been acting immature. Your sister shouldn't assume that every time your not iat her house it's because you don't accept her. Your mother should learn to accept that whether she likes him or not your father is still your father and you have a right to be with him.

If I were you I would tell another adult that you CAN trust. They would probably know what to do.

[HunnyBunches]

I can't trust any of the adults out here because they all think i'm making the wrong choice.They don't under stand that this is something that will make me happy and i hate upseting my sister but my mind is made up so they will never talk me out of it.

[Patriot1776]

You don't have a teacher or someone out ther ehwo won't care. I don't know if you are religious, but if that is the case you should go to someone like a priest or rabbi. They aren't allowed to decide whether your decisions are right or wrong. They are only allowed to help you decide what to do next.

[HunnyBunches]

i don't go to church and school don't start til after labor day and i'm gonna be gone b4 then

[Jessicar]

Yeah, its hard for us really to give you advice on this matter. its quite serious, and if we tell you the wrong thing to do, and you do it, we will be responsible for it. But yes, you need to ask an adult about this matter. If there is nobody else you can trust,there are always counselors and people like that you can talk to. Is there a connexions office thing in your area? If so, id advise seeing one of their practitioners.

[Patriot1776]

You don't have to attend church. I've known atheist who have gotten advice from priests. Like I said, they aren't allowed to choose whether to help you or not. It's there job to do it anyway.

[HunnyBunches]

okay but i don't think i can go to a counseler about this because if they look up my mothers and her boyfriends past they aren't gonna like what they see

[Jessicar]

Connexions practitioners wont look that up i doubt. you need to sort this out before its too late. theres no other way we can help you, im afraid.

[HunnyBunches]

okay.I'll just talk to my father.see what he says

[Patriot1776]

Going to a counselor would be a good idea. If they want to know more about your parents that's fine, but their job is to help you through your current problems not punish your or your parents for past mistakes.

[HunnyBunches]

their past mistakes aren't things you can over look

[Mikhael]

iis ur sister a lesbo ??? but really do what u think is rite

[HunnyBunches]

yes she is a lesbo

[Mikhael]

hmm.. well if u were to move with her u might fell wierd cos to be fair if i had to move into a house with some guys i would fell uncomfortable . wot is best is live at ur mums but go to visit ur sister (i mean like for weekends and stuff) and maybe go on holiday with them but thats wot i wood do

[HunnyBunches]

hello.

[*fender.chiq*]

Maybe you should just do what's best for you. And you know what that'll be.

Anger with people fades over time, they'll forgive you. You're only doing what you feel is right afterall.

[Mikhael]

hmmm well live with ur dad . rite and visit reguarly thats wot sm ppl ino do they live with one parent but meet up and rite to the other

[HunnyBunches]

thanks! finally. someone who don't even know me understands

[Mikhael]

i do my best . feel free to leave anyproblems in these posts and well all try and help.

[HunnyBunches]

thanks i will

[Kos]

If I may ask, why does everyone think you're making the wrong choice, aside from that your sister is upset and your mother hates him?

In any case, explain to your sister that you accept her, and that you would still be moving in with your stepfather whether she were straight or gay. If she wont accept that, she probably never had any intention of listening to begin with. It's your life, and though you obviously don't want to hurt your sister, you probably wouldn't do well to be guilt-tripped into living with her, especially if she will bring up acceptance issues whenever you make a choice that doesn't involve her.

[HunnyBunches]

hello