Your Longest Relationship?

[HunnyBunches]

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[Jessicar]

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[*fender.chiq*]

I've had two relationships so far.. One of them lasted just over a month, but the other last just over 2 months...

Hmm...

[HunnyBunches]

mine was 5 months

[~sexy_biatch~]

erm 5/6 months was my longest...

[HunnyBunches]

i think it's hard to keep a relationship going if your just going out with them for thier looks.don't you?that's why personality matters to me and looks count for a smaller percentage of my choice.

[~sexy_biatch~]

Yeah. Usually your attracted to someone by looks. Unless you know someone off the internet then you know their personality...or one side of it.
If you like their looks, but not personality then usually you dont stay with them..

[HunnyBunches]

i know.But it's dangerous meeting people off the internet.I'm not gonna lie i like cute boys but i mainly hang out with boys so i know thier personalitys as well as how they were in past relationships.I mean the boy i want to be with isn't hot but he's still cute and has an awesome body because he works with his dad on this farm.

[Oxide]

Just under a year for me. She ended up cheating, which was a fine way to end something that lasted so long. :/

[HunnyBunches]

that's what happend to me but he went with my best friend so i never spoke to her again either

[MathewS]

14 days :(.................

[HunnyBunches]

very very short relationship mathew

[hevence]

2 n half years and still in in!:D

[Mamfy]

4 years, and he cheated on me with a new girl who didnt even like him

[~sexy_biatch~]

Some of you have been in long relationships...
and mathew well that was a long relationship :P

[Mamfy]

oh, and he keeps asking for me back, and im through with him coz i know hell do it again:D

[MathewS]

Some of you have been in long relationships...
and mathew well that was a long relationship :P

:o.....

[Shane]

The one i am in right now! 1 Year, 5 months and 2 days exactly! :)

[ReAnImAtEd]

longest was the most recent...bout 11months...n she jus decided she dint feel the same no more :(

[DJDanny2020]

about 6 weeks was my longest....oh actually wait, back in year 6 i think i was with this lass for about 5 months lol :S cant remember, but at that age its not really a proper relationship, too young :S

[xxrachxx]

a serious one for me was 2 month.. but the twat finished it cos he fancied my best mate, he asked her out and she said no :D

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Two months.

He cheated...blah.

[MathewS]

about 6 weeks was my longest....oh actually wait, back in year 6 i think i was with this lass for about 5 months lol :S cant remember, but at that age its not really a proper relationship, too young :S

better than me thou.....

[Jessicar]

everyones is better than my inexistant one!

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I'd rather not have been in a relationship that ended like all of mine, to be honest. You're probably better off, in my eyes.

[Jessicar]

i guess thats true.

[Jessicar]

So many lads seem to cheat on their girlfriends these days. its awful.

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

All 3 of mine have cheated on me...not cool.

:/

[Jessicar]

Aww thats so awful :(

[~sexy_biatch~]

oh, and he keeps asking for me back, and im through with him coz i know hell do it again:D
yeah go u! once a cheater always a cheater! (well not always :P)

And danny if we count primary school relationships then my longest was about 5 or 6 years :P

[Mamfy]

but nah, my proper ones were like 6 months:)

[HunnyBunches]

i've been cheated on twice

[ReAnImAtEd]

i aint bin cheated on (as far as i kno) bin dumped 4 ma best mate b4 , which sux

[~sexy_biatch~]

i havnt been cheated on yaaaaay (yet)

[HunnyBunches]

your lucky

[*fender.chiq*]

I haven't been cheated on either... Touch wood *hits self on head*

[Oxide]

So many lads seem to cheat on their girlfriends these days. its awful.
It works both ways. Girls cheating on boys is becoming increasingly common.

[Bob!]

So many lads seem to cheat on their girlfriends these days. its awful.

True, but its axactly the same the other way round.

One o the guys at college was tellin about his m8, who got dragged all way to leeds by his girlfriend to go to summat, then she buggered off with another guy for the rest of the night.
One o the lasses who was with us, (one whose not a slapper actually, quite the opposite) just said, "well thats what we girls do, we sumtimes need to be with other people".

Charmin lol.

So its both ways tbh.

Also to keep on topic, bout 3-4 month, cant remember exact, mite as well have not happened really, would av been better that way.

[Jessicar]

Well i meant the other way round as well. but im talking about the people who have been cheated on on this forum

[HunnyBunches]

guys can be cruel and so can girls but in most cases it's the man who cheated on the women

[Bob!]

Thats bull, nowdays the lasses are just as bad.

Almost every girl i know has gone out with a bloke just for "summat to do". then when hes not around shes bored so she gets sumone else for the time bein.

Comments liek that go both ways, i heavilly criticize how most women are now, but at least i realise quite a lot o blokes are the same, as one lass i knew from school has stuck with her bloke for years, even tho hes blatently done horrible stuff like goin an shaggin sumone else just to annoy her, but even then shes still put up with it, might be a silly move might not, she aint the most innocent o girls herself but I do credit her for the dedication.

A lotta the guy mates I know actually loved their lass, but all the lass did was find sum stupid excuse to want a change. They didnt want just one guy as they "got bored".

So basically how things are now, id say ya cant really place comments on jus lads or jus lasses anymore, its the people themselves, as both genders are just as bad. The "innocent girl" type thing has now bein exchanged for "miss byatch". But as i said, its the people themselves who should be placed under criticism.

[*fender.chiq*]

*cough* Bob.. *scowls*

[Bob!]

So the femenists arnt happy when its bein accused back eh?

Just cause ya females it dont mean ya not capable of doin "bad stuff", ya cant put it all on the blokes. Ive just given a perfectly resonable view there, but since it puts females down as being "just as bad", it cant be right now can it, all females are cute innocent lil sweeties who would never do anythin wrong in the whole wide world and just the blokes are the big bad assholes eh?

Take a look around at the people themselves, not just their gender, sure u ladies who are always complainin about not being treated equal would understand that, of course.

[HunnyBunches]

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[Bob!]

Exactly, thats why its the people themselves who should be criticized now, not just one gender, as both are equally guilty of doin the same type o things. I dont know any men thats done any worse stuff to their partner than the lasses i know have done to theirs.

I'm not saying everyones the same either, corse theres people who havent done that kinda stuff, I havent myself, and neither am I accusin everyone else of it. Thats why i believe it should not be categorised to one single gender anymore.

[HunnyBunches]

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[*fender.chiq*]

Bob, I wasn't saying 'All women are innocent'. Far from that if I was being truthful, I was just slightly narked at the fact you were classifying ALL women as being Miss Biatch and basically saying there were no respectable ones left.

I know I can be nasty sometimes, but I wouldn't dream of actually cheating on a guy. It's against my morels. It's just plain wrong to put someone in uneccessary pain for your vain need.

I know girls are as bad a boys these days. I've said it in other threads about vainity and all that. Boys and girls are generally equal on most things these days. This being included.

There's nothing saying 'Oh, all boys cheat' or 'All girls are slappers', it's according to opinions, but for a lot of people, I think everyone's an equal.

It's where morality lies. If the person is disloyal and believes it fine to be that way, then so be it, but until what goes around comes around, and they get their repayment and some realise what it's like. Then again, some people do it over and over again, screwing one person over after another. Nothing's to say whether it's a boy or a girl which does it, because I believe that everyone is capable of doing these things. It just depends on moral standards and loyalty.

[Bob!]

Exactly what i was fookin sayin woman, i was talking about majorities lol. :rolleyes:
If ya read it then ud see, i mean come on, its not a jess class bigass block o text now is it :P



I believe that everyone is capable of doing these things. It just depends on moral standards and loyalty.


Exactly my whole argument was based around that, Dont criticize the genders anymore, criticize the people.

[*fender.chiq*]

*rolls eyes*

I wasn't saying anything about 'majorities'.

Get glasses Bob.. I said 'MORALITIES'

[Bob!]

i know that!!!!!!!!1111 :rolleyes:

What iwa sayin was what i wa on about WAS majorities, with the miss byatch comment or whatever, meaning the majority not the whole gender.

The morality part comes in with criticisin the persons morals, instead of their genre, which is also what I was saying, just a different part.

So basically ur view is the same as mine, which is good, ya just seemed to misunderstand one o the parts o mine lol.

[*fender.chiq*]

Shushhhh alcomahol...

[~sexy_biatch~]

men do cheat yeah, but equally women do...not that ive cheated

[HunnyBunches]

me niether (i think it's karma)what goes around comes around

[BleedBlack]

mmm...well getting back on topic my longest relationship was 2 years & 2 months

[Mamfy]

I think its horrible, you should treat people how you would like to be treated. As ive heard no girl would want to be cheated on, therefore no boy would want it either. Some people should think before they do these things, before it lands themself in a huge mess.

I have been cheated on and it is not a nice feeling, and i wouldnt wnat to put anyone through that.

I wouldnt class myself as missi biatch, because im not, anyone who gets to know me would see that, and see how sensitive and caring i am. I hate knowing someone is upset or hurt, so i try and make it better, i wouldnt CAUSE the pain.:)

[amelia]

my longest relationship was two and a half years fromyear three to year 5.

[D3c3p7ioN]

I think about 4 or 5 months

[DJDanny2020]

men do cheat yeah, but equally women do...not that ive cheated

I believe women cheat more than men do! I think this cos women like the attention of men n when they have quite a bit to drink it all goes from there basically lol

Actually i dunno, what do you think?

[BleedBlack]

i dont think you can really say which sex cheats more. i think both male and females share an equal part in it.

the quite a bit to drink part - do u think thats actually a resonable excuse for cheating on someone?

[DJDanny2020]

Oh yeah definitly! How many times do u hear people say, i was so drunk i know i shouldnt of done it bla bla, they blame the drink. Wether they lie or not i dont know!

[BleedBlack]

yeah, i know a heap of people use that excuse..... i dont think it really makes it right though. cos you gotta admit, even when you are drunk, you can be in control of what your doin.

[Mamfy]

Yeah! You should be able to stop before it gets outta hand

[Kiss.Me.I'm.Contagious]

6 years o.o;

[random-lemons]

Well my longest is my current.... me and my bf will be going out for 2 years on 21st November! YAY! :D

[zena]

clean record..no boyfrens..:cool: i kinda prefer havin jus a guy who's very close to me but not as my bf..like he's my best guy fren..not bf

[BleedBlack]

6 years o.o;

and your only 16! gee, that's a great effort then..

[pressure]

iv been with my bf for 1 year 5 months and 5 days
been the best 1 year 5 months and 5 days of my life :)

oh and we are still going strong :)

[claire]

6 whole months is my longest!

[Stormydayz]

You guyz are gonna laugh at me but mine has was about 8 months but i broke up with him after he decided to get all stupid and offer me pot. Now he's a stoner, and a girlfriendless one at that.

[Mamfy]

Good for you!:D

[bambizzle]

laugh if you must, but about a week

[Jessicar]

laugh if you must, but about a week
Naah nobody will laugh. i know people that can only keep them for a couple of days!
And hey, thats a week longer than iv had someone!
Iv been single all meh life :P

[bambizzle]

the other embarrassing thing is that was pretty much the only one ive had, but still

[Mamfy]

Nothing to be embarassed about! Means you have your standards, which is good!

Plus, wouldn't you rather be like that than be like a pimp or someone who has slept around with all the bitches?

[bambizzle]

yeah thats true, but still sounds stupid though

[Mamfy]

The people who think it's stupid are the people who have slept with every girl on the block. And you don't want to end up like them!

[bambizzle]

yeah well, a large ammount of the people i know are like that so i often worry bout it, for some reason

[Duroxis]

My longest relationship is the one I'm currently in, around 10 month now :D

[Mamfy]

yeah well, a large ammount of the people i know are like that so i often worry bout it, for some reason

What do you worry about?

[bambizzle]

stupid things, like when am i ever gonna find the right person and all that petty bollocks

[Mamfy]

Argh, is it me or when your friends have girlfriends/boyfriends, doesn't it make you feel worthless or make you feel like you'll never find the right one?

[bambizzle]

a bit yeah, it makes me feel left out and sometimes when im pissed i get angry and lonely, but only when i started the night in a bad mood

[Mamfy]

Yeah! It's harsh! Takes time to find the right one don't ya think?

[bambizzle]

yeah. and when you think youve got the right one it turns out wrong, thats annoying too

[Mamfy]

God yeah! You put your heart into it and then it breaks:( Love is not all what it's cracked up to be! But then again, where would we be without it?:D

[bambizzle]

in a lonely world, i guess

[Mamfy]

Yeah, so. Love is good after all lol

[bambizzle]

meh, when you get it

anyway now im gonna stop moaning

[Mamfy]

Yeah! Me too:D Lol

[MoozeManDude]

Longest relationship? Bout 2years, but I didn't even like him! How bloody pointless is that?