Looks Or Personality?

[Christina]

we was just discussing in my intro thingy wat people go for looks or personality? i was wondering wat u all felt, alex made a good point that when you walk down a street u notice good lookin people more, u just cant help it I agree with him, but i never rush into relationships, i go for personallity more, what about u lot?

[Jessicar]

Personality.
Theres no point in having a super hot boy, but having better conversations with wallpaper is there? :P

[emilybabes]

no your right i am the same....i must admit i don't fully go for personality i like a nice cute lookin lad he he but personality is the most important.

[Christina]

LOL! nope! ok then whos single on here? and if not how long have u been out with ur other half?

[emilybabes]

im single and hating it :( i want a bf!

[Jessicar]

Im single too. Its crap isnt it? :P

[Christina]

yer it is!

were are all the men!!!!! lol!

[Jessicar]

They are all either taken,or dont swing that way:P

[Drunk_druid]

lmao, nice way to put it jess lol. Single here 2 but lovin it :D

[*fender.chiq*]

I'm single, and pretty much happy with it. As always though, there's the moments when you miss having someone, but meh. Nevermind!

Personally, I go for personality. But, I think that maybe you have to be attracted to their looks even just a tiny bit. It's kind of complicated. Heh.

[Drunk_druid]

I'm single, and pretty much happy with it. As always though, there's the moments when you miss having someone, but meh. Nevermind!

Personally, I go for personality. But, I think that maybe you have to be attracted to their looks even just a tiny bit. It's kind of complicated. Heh.

yes it is quite complicated isnt it...personality def but u may have heard wat i posted sumwhere else (i think it was pointed out by christina?)
Yer sumtimes you do miss having a person to call up and flirt with or just sit together with or hug...goddamn i need a gf again...

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I'm single.


I go for personality. Yeah, looks are nice and they initally attract me to a person, but if they're dumber than my dog, I know nothing good is gonna come out of it.

[*fender.chiq*]

yes it is quite complicated isnt it...personality def but u may have heard wat i posted sumwhere else (i think it was pointed out by christina?)
Yer sumtimes you do miss having a person to call up and flirt with or just sit together with or hug...goddamn i need a gf again...

The effect I have on guys then, they're happily single and I say one thing and suddenly they're in need of a partner again :P

But yeah, I miss the meaningful hugs, holding hands and going for a walk or going shopping. Hell. Meaningful kisses and just curling up on the sofa watching a film on something on the telly .. I'm just making myself feel worse. =|

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Blame your hormones, sweety.


That's what I do.


:P

[Drunk_druid]

The effect I have on guys then, they're happily single and I say one thing and suddenly they're in need of a partner again :P

But yeah, I miss the meaningful hugs, holding hands and going for a walk or going shopping. Hell. Meaningful kisses and just curling up on the sofa watching a film on something on the telly .. I'm just making myself feel worse. =|

Of course it was you who made me want a partner ;) Thats why i miss having 1...sigh o well school again, u neva know whos new maybe theres a niceperson out there who wants a bf :)

[DJDanny2020]

i go for both really, but probs looks more than personality

[~sexy_biatch~]

looks and personality, if i kno them personality first and ther good lookin then wahay. but i cant deny that when i see a hot guy i wanna no his personality. lets say i saw a mingin ld in street, i wouldnt give him 2 looks.
but hey that might sounds shallow but looks AND personality pay a big part...and hey if ther not gud lookin ur not gunna get excited if ya no wat a mean :P

[Drunk_druid]

lol, exactly the same as me *high-five*

[*DoBin*]

perosnalty but a great bonus if he is cute but again i am not bothered

[~sexy_biatch~]

*hits hand*

[HunnyBunches]

looks first then personality for me.I see some1 cute and I'll talk to them 4 a little while but if their not really talking in a smart manor i'll walk away.

There was this boy in my school who was soooooo cute but once you got into a conversation with him there was no point in talking to him.I think it was because he was always smoking before school.

[Mamfy]

I go for personality before looks because I liek to have a nice chat with a boyfriend:) But looks are a part of it for me, otherwise I'd feel bad.

I wouldn't mind having a boyfriend to curl up on the sofa with infront of the fire watching a film, or stolling along the beach hand in hand with, or just someoen to hug and feel close and secure with! But I do enjoy being single, gives me times to be with my friends. Hell, I have the odd day where I miss having someone but I'm not at the brink of being absolutely desperate for someone! I'm just happy to wait for the right one to come along:)

[HunnyBunches]

the thing is if their not cute i don't like to get engaged into a serious conversation with them so thats why it's looks first.I feel uncomfortable when an ugly boy likes me!Can't help it.

[Drunk_druid]

lol, yer but wen you reminiscesumtimes its so tempting to go start looking for a gf maybe even just 1 or a day or two...

[~sexy_biatch~]

argh dont get me started on want a bf :(

[Oxide]

You have to have a good balance of looks and personality. Some of the nicest people are hideous looking, but nobody finds out how nice they are because they're too busy running in the opposite direction.

Good looking people catch your eye in the street, but a lot of good looking people are far too big-headed and self-absorbed to have a nice personality.

If you can get a good mixture of both, you're a lucky person.

[Mamfy]

Very lucky person if there is a balance and they are perfect!

Sadly, it is rare, anyone found one yet?

[HunnyBunches]

i think i have(THINK is the key word)

[Drunk_druid]

i doubt u hav!

[Bob!]

I did, but that ended 2 days b4 last crimbo lol.

I guess I actually found the perfect one fer me, jus not the other way round lol. Always knew itd be like that tbh.

So much for the big "ladies man" eh? lol. http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif

[~sexy_biatch~]

bob u will find someone. one day

[Mamfy]

Yeah, I found the perfect one for me, just one teeny weeny problem.

[HunnyBunches]

what's that mamfy?


i doubt u hav!


i doubt it too.I always get with the opposite ones that I only stay with for about a week.I can't find the right one.

[Drunk_druid]

yes is a difficult job

[emilybabes]

im shocked bob im bet you have rejected lots of girls!

[Bob!]

Actually no lol, Though I mite have a had a couple o chances, but it was at a time where i couln't take em up.

I guess most just leave me be as a m8 cause I treat em equally as I do everyone else, also not activly tryin to pull em str8 away like most others do lol.

No idea anyways, jus how it is lol.

[emilybabes]

awwww bless i luv a guy like that! you have bin the same with me 2 :D this girl is well pleased!

[IceBurn3000]

*Poll Added*

Personality is definately more important, but looks play a major role in any decision too :P

[BleedBlack]

personality mostly. looks r good too.

sometimes when im attracted to someones personality, i then begin attracketed to their looks even if they were good looking in the begining...that happen to anyone else??

[Mamfy]

Yeah happens to me too! I much rather have someone with a personality I can have a chat and a laugh wtih than someone I can just show off.

[Drunk_druid]

yer, trophy wives/gfs/bfs/husbands are kinda wrong

[Mamfy]

Kinda wrong?! Lol

[BleedBlack]

yeah that is pretty low...when people are showing off their gf/bf etc

[Drunk_druid]

lol, i meant very wrong!!

[Mamfy]

Good! Lol*thumbs up*

[kirsty_babe]

dis mite sound shallow but i fink looks is realli important cos if u cnt stand 2 luk at dem den ders no point but personality is important 2 i prefer confident bois tho cos i can tlk 2 dem beta dan shy ones lol

[Bob!]

Tbh more u see o sumones personality affects how u see em in looks.

If you end up lovin sumone cause o how they are then as long as theyre nto REALLY ugly, ya begin to see em in a different light anyway an they become more beautiful to ya own eyes because o how u think of them.

[*fender.chiq*]

That's true Bob. Otherwise people's friends wouldn't care about the person they were, they'd just care about how they looked and judge them upon that.

Whereas, friends see you in your personality and don't really care about how you look.

[DJDanny2020]

dis mite sound shallow but i fink looks is realli important cos if u cnt stand 2 luk at dem den ders no point but personality is important 2 i prefer confident bois tho cos i can tlk 2 dem beta dan shy ones lol

oh no, the text talker is back :p

[~sexy_biatch~]

hey! i used to text talk...ive stopped now though :S wow! now kirst is back i might drift into doin it agen....

[LukeEv_17]

personality and if they're good looking than its a bonus

[Drunk_druid]

they have run tests, if you really like somebody you will automatically picture them as a better person, cos thats how you think of them and its really hard talking on msn then switching to normal chat

[kirsty_babe]

i cnt help it lol sori ppl

[Bob!]

Tis how most are kirsty.

Also ah reyt druid, i guess what I said wa true then, dependin on how the person feels.

[timswfc]

kirsty very shallow of u...ure 2 shallow girl!

[Bob!]

Timbo u can hardly say that lol http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/1276/laugh.gif

[greenday4eva]

we was just discussing in my intro thingy wat people go for looks or personality? i was wondering wat u all felt, alex made a good point that when you walk down a street u notice good lookin people more, u just cant help it I agree with him, but i never rush into relationships, i go for personallity more, what about u lot?
i feel the same. alex is totally right but when you see new people you dont no their personality.
it'd be great if they had both but overall if you want a successsful relationship you need a good personality.


You have to have a good balance of looks and personality. Some of the nicest people are hideous looking, but nobody finds out how nice they are because they're too busy running in the opposite direction.

Good looking people catch your eye in the street, but a lot of good looking people are far too big-headed and self-absorbed to have a nice personality.

If you can get a good mixture of both, you're a lucky person.

that is so true. i think that is great what you sed. so deep.

[pressure]

the reason why you look at someone in the first place is their looks, so this is contraduction.
but obviously after you have spoken at whatever you get to know them, you will know if you match in any way possible

but i tend to go for personality, although looks are important, jus not AS important

[lozzy]

personallity,but looks first attract me to them, so he has to be at least a little bit good looking not all ugly but mostly it's about personality!

[mel_10_10]

personality all the way

[Haunting_Echoes]

It depends what you are lookig for, see, if you worked for a moddeling agency and were lookig for a Model, you'd look at looks the person could be the most self-involved in the world and that wouldn't matter. But in other cases such as friends it's usually personality.... Both count sometimes too.

[Jezard]

being honest every one is initially attarcted to some one by thier looks, but if u meet them and they cant hold a convosation for example then its a turn off also u could meet some one who has a really nice personality but isnt the prettiest girl and be attracted to them then,
i think personality is really important but a pretty girl womt go a miss but im not extremely worried bout that,

[Haunting_Echoes]

I don't know, I met my fiance over the net, so I fell in love with his personality before I even knew what he looked like... So that's not really true for me..

[Jezard]

thats cool, but i did say u could be attracted to some one becuase of there personality,

[Haunting_Echoes]

Yeah I know, I'm just stating, I mean, it all depends on the person as to how things happen.... Different mind-sets.

[Jezard]

o i see yea that a fair point

[Haunting_Echoes]

Mostly it depends what your mind set is, and then it depends on any given day what you are looking for.

[iloveroddy]

personality .. but he cant be a minger either .. but personality has to be first ..

[melty_malty]

when I was youger I used to go for looks and ended up with some guys that really hurt me now I always think personality is much better

[Stormydayz]

Ok, i think the person has got to make me feel special with a great personality and a huge heart..but i mean i would like to be able to look at them with out going ugghhh!

[lil_sawa]

when im out places i do tend to notice the good lookin guys, but i like to get to no a person before rushing into things, i dont think its fair to judge a person on their looks. i prefer personality to looks to be honest :D

also... id love to make some new friends so if ya wanna get in touch or anythin feel free to message me :D xxx

[~Wayne~]

Well obviously you gotta think they look good to approach them in the first place and get to know 'em, so both really

[Bob!]

A man called Jhoon Ree, (who once studied and trained with the one and only Bruce Lee) once said:

"There are three human universal values that are based on the universal purpose of life. These are Truth, Beauty and Love.

We find Happiness when we Love, Beauty triggers a love emotion and truth beautifies the human heart."

So it turns out as:

"When I am truthful, I am beautiful;
When I am beautiful, people love me;
When people love me, I am happy.

From those 3 basic qualities we can be humanly perfect."

So it states anyways, would be good if the first one worked though, nowdays it seems to be the opposite really http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif

[DeathSeeker]

I'll take a girl with both, I try to find someone that has good looks as well as a great personality. but If i cant find a girl with both i'll take a girl with a great personality

[Shane]

I would much rather go for a girl with a great personality than a really amazingly fit looking slaggish bird who you could never trust.

Personality is THE greatest factor in a relationship, if you don't like who the person is and how they act then you will not get along and you wont hit it off in the first place.

[Bob!]

True, its only a sexual relationship, not a loving one if the lass is a slapper, or all ya want her for is the fun.

Just depends on diff tastes I guess lol.

[Deanox]

Personality...

I like to get to know someone first, but Looks don't matter that much....

[claire]

i agree personality is the most important, but not all fit looking people are slags or whatever, even the not so good looking ppl, can be protrayed as being easy therefore always get their leg over.

My point being that it is best to get to know someone before judging ppl on their physical attributes!

[Mikhael]

lol 7 ppl said looks :D ( my guess tim , pearson , manu, Luke ," darren :D")
i really dont mind much Ill look for someone with a good personality who is " atractive "

[CraigYohn!]

I'm on more of a balance, has to have a good personality an not too bad looking, theres just some people I really...REALLY, cant go out with.

[DJDanny2020]

i voted looks, to be honest they have to have looks as well as a good personality

[claire]

Yea u do need to have that physical attraction otherwise your always gunna be thinkin of someone you consider gorgeous while ya kissing them n wotnot, n that aint fair!

[GotToHaveNeo]

Personally, i think most things start off with looks. Your in a bar, at school/work wherever and a very attractive person walks in, your first thought is "wow, not thats someone id like to get to know" well either that or for some people out there it would be "Hot damn! look at that ass, id love to hit that". For the people out there who dont think with their privates, looks play an important part. I'm not saying personality isnt important, but i think looks get the ball rolling.

[.unique.]

Looks draw you too someone...no point saying 'only personality matters'...then the personailty takes over..

[Bob!]

Yeah looks draw you to em if you first meet em in a bar or whatever.

but what if you already know sumone as a friend, and then when you get to know what theyre really like well, thats goin for personality aint it.

[danni4kevin]

yh wen i c buff boys im lyk omg. but normally i go 4 personality. but im single now so u no

[Brianna.]

Danni-I mentioned this before but I don't think you read it. It was an older post.

Could you tone down the shorthand just a little? It's kind of hard to understand some of your posts.

Thanks!

:)

[Riccardo]

Looks are important, why would you date someone you don't fancy?
You have friends for personality.
Im not saying personality isn't important, because i wouldn't go out with someone if i didn't like there personality.
All saying is if your just going for personality, you might as well just stay friends because you get to hang around with them for there personality anyway

[zmgharrypotter]

This is a really hard question.

They have to have good looks for me to get to notice them, or atleast be really outgoing.

I'd like somewhere inbetween; cute and funny, or something.

[Hevz]

no point in sayin only personality matters bcos u av 2 find sum1 physically attractive bt when u can find sum1 with an amazing personality who u find absolutely off the hook then it's all good!

[NATAL!E]

Personally, i think most things start off with looks. Your in a bar, at school/work wherever and a very attractive person walks in, your first thought is "wow, not thats someone id like to get to know" well either that or for some people out there it would be "Hot damn! look at that ass, id love to hit that". For the people out there who dont think with their privates, looks play an important part. I'm not saying personality isnt important, but i think looks get the ball rolling.

That made me laugh so much. :Nat:

And I realised over the weekend, that I probably do have a shallow aspect to myself. I'm not someone who could go out with a guy who I find physically repulsive or just.. unattractive. If I'm not attracted to them, then I'm not going to want to kiss them or anything.

But there's also the aspect of initial attraction. If I see a hot guy, it's like 'Wow. I'd like to get to know him' etc. So that's like the spark.

However, there's got to be the personality similarities of course. I couldn't like a guy if we had absolutely nothing in common, or there'd be nothing to talk about. Haha

[Ranger]

For me, it's mainly personality. But, if you look terrible, I won't even consider a relationship.

[Sammi]

A bit of both, but more of personality. This guy I like is gorgeous, but he's got such a caring personality and I wouldn't like him if he was good looking and up his own arse. Arrogance isn't attractive. And neither are guys who blab about how many girls they have or how far they've gone. It's not clever, and it doesn't make you look like a man. It makes you look like a twit :D
Personality comes out tops, definitley. It's dire going out with someone who has nothing to say.

[lilsawa2oo6]

i prefer personality, even though the first thing you notice is looks, if you get to know a guy or gal, youll notice theres more to them than just what they look like... its whats on the inside that counts..afterall.

[Tommy Vercetti]

Personality, but I do have a thing for girls with black hair that are shorter than me

[brownsimpson]

hey all,

think of the conciquences. if you saw an unattractive guy at a party you woudn't start talking to him would you? it only happens when you're with your friends and you start talking to him automatically and finds out he's a gr8 guy or if you gave him a chance.

[michelle]

looks are wot attract you to a guy/girl but when you get to know them its there personality that you go for and decide if you like them or not, but i think personality is a good thing to go for.
the looks are what attract you to the person and the personality is the big one that helps ou decide of you like the person.
but every one is different

[NeEdLeZ]

Personality is definitely key for me. Most good-looking guys I know are so full of themselves and so shallow. I'm not saying all handsome guys are like that, but most of the ones I know are really rude. One time, this guy (a hot guy) I knew went up to one of my friends and said with rude smirk, "Hey, my friend over there has the hots for you, he wants to go out with you" and it was more than obvious he was being cruel. So I went up to this guy and really gave it to him (as in really humiliated him publicly). Oh, and apparently, there was a recent study that said people are more likely to fall in love with people that have the same physical features, because they're more comfortable with what they're familiar with. I guess that's why most of the guys I've had crushes on either had dark brown hair or dark brown eyes, so the theory is pretty accurate for me. And out of pure randomness...... don't you hate those trashy girls that always go all "groupie-like" around good looking guys? So to end my ranting, looks can be decieving, and therfore looks aren't even of minor importance to me.

[Pearson]

Im a looks man, cant stand a lass with a good personality!

[peawea]

i loved being single! ive been in a relationship for a year now and am very much in love but i really miss flirting! it was my favorite part of being single!

[The Reaper]

So the message I'm getting here is that you would sleep with a goat if it could hold an interesting conversation?

[0neill911]

personality easily

[Leon]

OLD thread got bumped by someone voting.

I think a bit of both is best, I wouldn't go out with someone purely for looks if they were dumb as and boring, and I wouldn't go out with someone who may be really smart and have a great fun personality, but in all honesty quite ugly.

If they have a really good personality and are really good looking, then hell, they're a rarity, joking :P

[Menace]

Looks.

I'll just become bitter and disgusted with myself if after I accept a not so good looking girl, she turns bitchy on me. But with a pretty girl, I wouldn't feel so bad if things went astray, atleast she was pretty.

:D

[Nirvana_rox]

Personality ftw:)

[Kerry]

Personality.

[Jekyll-Hyde]

I understand that looks ARE important but the personality matters more. You could have the most beautiful 'perfect' girl but at the same time, she could be the most horrible, manipulative and awful bitch. So, I believe that unless you're a shallow, narrow-minded person, you should get to know a person better than instantling judging them on their appearance.

[Fez]

if its a friend i go for personality. but if i'm engaging in a relationship, personality and looks does matter.

[sniffer]

Personality always makes the exterior beautiful.

[nyx]

Anyone that says looks don't matter is lying. Its obviously a mixture of both, or at least should be.

[Menace]

Yeah, especially in this metrosexual society.

[eukaryote]

Well, I certainly would want to be with someone who was good looking, but if he had a bad personality the relationship would be over pretty quick. Personality.

[Rashella]

I'd like to say personality was all that mattered to me, but it would be a lie. It is a big factor though, so i'd say 50/50.

[Wacko1574]

PERSONALITY !! :ninja*:

[lucille]

With Jamie initially it was looks. But now he's gained about 2 stone from his meds my attraction to his personality is keeping us going strong.

I like big guys, it makes me feel all tiny and cute and skinny guys freak me out.

[strike]

Looks always trigger it, while personality fuels it.

[kristopher]

i hate people who say you shouldnt care about looks, and just persnality first, but i cant believe that those people would go over to someone really really fat and ugly person and start flirting, looks attract you and peRonality makes it stick and omg i just realised i spent the 5 minutes typing this on my psp when the last post said the same thing in a lot less words! shit

[VraiCanon]

Looks always trigger it, while personality fuels it.

Good point.
I would only be interested in someone 'that way' if I liked the way they looked or I just wouldn't be attracted to them :\
Personality is important if I want a relationship though because you can get bored of looking at a pretty face.

[Khashoggi]

Personality, of course. As long as they're making an effort for me looks-wise, it's all good. Looks are subjective anyway.

And the hottest guys are always cocks. :[

[Guest Boi]

Nah..Ppl go for looks man.Call me bias or anything..but i experienced 2 different kind of treatments b4 (the one when i was ugly and the one when i grew up to be gd-looking XD).Sounds kinda old xP...but im 17 only =))

[Matty_1992]

Both for me.They carnt be super ugly with a great personality or super good looking with a sucky personality.
As long as they have a good personality and are ok in looks/make an effort then thats the best.

[Wacko1574]

come on wut if some one doesnt appeal much to you....and you wont even get the chance to know them that well....then again i think no one here did.......well if a person is ugly or pretty.......i think personality matters...i am not going to be frnds with the way they look but who they are i suppose :)

[Leon]

At the end of the day, you wouldn't date someone who only has one of the qualities and is completely lacking in the other so does it really matter.

[ashleyxkilljoy]

personality! i would rather have a
great time with an unattractive
guy than a boring time with a 'hot'
guy. (=

[ChemicalxSKIDZ]

Personality , thats what i go for , if they have a bad one i find them very unattractive

[VelvetOnda]

well looks are very important, but personality beat it.

[Elliott200]

Both :P for you to talk to them you have to have some kind of physical attraction towards them, unless they come to you of course :D

[Buttons93]

Personality defo!!

[jarhead]

to be honest its 60% looks 40% person, people say it about inside which counts but it mostly about looks...not just the face...if you know what i mean..

but to be frank, looks are built into us it a instint, so we find the healthly looking person to mate with, it pretty much in our DNA.

[♥PrincessAlice♥]

there is not both thing to choose....
for me it is both

to me my boyfriend is so adorable and makes me feel all funny when he does his really really cute smile :)
also though he hes a very silly sense of humour when hes with me, me and him have most of the same opinions aswel :)
he just generally makes me tummy feel funny :) he has done for the 3years that i've known him

[partyday]

honestly, a bit of both for me.

[partyday]

there is not both thing to choose....
for me it is both

to me my boyfriend is so adorable and makes me feel all funny when he does his really really cute smile :)
also though he hes a very silly sense of humour when hes with me, me and him have most of the same opinions aswel :)
he just generally makes me tummy feel funny :) he has done for the 3years that i've known him


agreed completely! my boyfriend makes me feel like a princess when im around him, and he is the most gorgeous kid i've ever met. to be completely forward, his looks are what made me talk to him in the first place, and as we continued talking i learned he had an amazing personality and he is constantly making me laugh and we're basically exactly like eachother. :)

[Shakedown]

Both. Like Leon said, your never gonna go for someone who is entirely inept in either department.

[Ece]

Ah Personality definitely.

[lisa_cutie]

i've noticed how the majority of guys go for personality and looks and not just the personality and that the girls go for personality. I mean someone posted somewhere, don't know who but not all ugly guys are sensible and not all hot guys are shallow and cheaters. this can also apply to girls too. pretty girls tend to be bitchy in my opinion and unattractive girls can be down-to-earth but I know a lot of girls and guys who are good looking and treat their girls/guys good.

in my opinion, even if a confident guy came up to me and asked me out on a date and told me i was pretty and i thought he was unattractive and didn't like his looks I'll reject him, cos he obviously thought that i was pretty not anything else. I mean if he thought that I had a good personality and pretty at the same time i'd go for him, but I'd have to think the same way towards him too.

[sabrina]

haha . . personality . .
case i myself is not good looking. .

[VraiCanon]

Anyone who says looks don't matter is a liar.
Do people forget that attractiveness is subjective? If you want to be with someone, you obviously find them attractive, regardless if anyone else didn't.
It's ok saying 'personality is what counts' - yeah, personality is important, you wouldn't want to look at an oil painting with no detail.

[Buttons93]

Umm .. I don't think looks matter at all! and I'm not a liar thank you very much!
But I think their personality portrays how attractive they appear to you.

[VraiCanon]

Umm .. I don't think looks matter at all! and I'm not a liar thank you very much!
But I think their personality portrays how attractive they appear to you.

So you'd happily get into a relationship with someone whos looks repulse you? Doubt it.
You just said that the personality portrays attractiveness... Thus you see them as being attractive...

[Buttons93]

Not necessarily .. but if I saw two guys at a party, one really hot, the other not so hot and got talking to them both and it turned out the one with the nicer personality was the ugly one then I'd just think sod the hot one..

[sweet8060]

I definitely go for personality..Guys can be hot but i don't think of them as hot or cute until i get to know them

[Hugga-Bear]

At first looks attract you but if they have a rubbish personality then you just don't get to like them. If i'm being honest at parties etc I go for looks and only personality if I plan to make it a long term relationship. outside of parties and pubs etc I do go for personality though, a good personality is attractive!

[colored_zebra]

well 4 me it works like this...
at first i notice the hotter ones and if they can have a decent convo and can make me laugh i fall head over heels 4 them.
but usually if they cant make me laugh easily i cannot like them at all-no matter how hot they r
and also ppl sorta become better looking if they have a better personality(i no it sounds weird but its sorta true) like if ur hot but ur a bitch ppl start to notice ur imperfections more or say u have had plastic surgery or stuff like tht.
but if ur just normal looking but have an awesome personality ppl notice the better things about u and forget the imperfections

well thers my 2 cents :)

[VraiCanon]

Personality bbz.
Looks are important though, obviously. I'm not going to go for a swamp donkey.

[TheMan]

Looks = Attraction = Fuckfriend.
Looks + Personnality = Love = Possible relationship.

[adam_smith]

Has to be personality
just to find that one place in a person that nobody else goes is my goal
im just lucky Tracy has the whole package (well im my opinion anyway)

[rqlguevarra]

looks first attract you to someone , but it is the personality that will keep you together. I choose personality.:bouncy:

[gribble92uk]

bit of both never did any harm... but personality always comes first of course

[-Michael-]

Who the hell put looks lol.

[Thesimpleone.]

i know it sounds shallow,
but i have got myself into some bad situations by finding really hot peolpe. that have really crap personalities, but dating them anyway cause there fit.
i guess a balance is best.
i'm just not a good set of scales, and cant seem to find that balance x

[GemmaJamPot]

Personality.
For me... when I really like someones personality, I dont mind if they are not stereotypically "good looking"... and people who I wouldnt usually find attractive, I see them in different lights.
X

[twinkyofalla]

For me, if I have a huge crush on someone, he will look unbelievably attractive to me. Physical attractiveness and muscle don't mean anything to me unless I am enamored by your intelligence, ambition, and personality (http://mysexystories.com/blog/2010/02/19/whats-more-important-looks-or-personality).

[Alpharius]

We are animals. Theirs no getting away from that fact.

The first thing we'll notice when it comes to a potential mate is their looks. All who say they go for personality first are talking bull, because until you have a meaningful conversation with them you will not know anything about their personality. For us to want to have that meaningful convo with a potential mate (not a friend, thats different imo), you have to be physically attracted to them first.

Therefore, whether you want to admit it or not, we all sub-consciously go for looks first.

That is as long as your not one of the rare cases where you start dating one of your long-term friend.

Just my 2 cent, (I bet the emo's won't like this) :P

[Giggle Monster]

Both are important, although I think personality is the more important of the two for me.

If I had to choose, I would rather be with a plain-looking guy with a great personality than a boring guy who looks good, but I won't act like the way a person looks doesn't matter at all. You can say, "looks don't matter to me," all you want, but they do influence how attracted you are to a person. When you really love someone, you don't care too much about their appearance, but physical attraction is still important. Just like a relationship won't survive on physical attraction alone, it won't survive on emotional attraction alone. You need both for it to work out long-term.

[popeye]

It's a well known fact that asking people for their preferences is a poor indicator for their actual choices in life.

I think that this poll is a good example.

Whoever started this poll forgot an important choice: Money.

[WastedlittleDj]

I prefer both tbh, but their personality has to outshine looks.

[aglarana]

personality all the way but the looks are the first thing u see and if u are not intrested in the looks u won't stick around to see their personality, i am not saying that i only talk to pretty guys/girls but if a person is not so handsome andi don't know him i won't go out on a date with him, but if he is not so handsome and i know him i will do it because in the end is the personality that stays

[Odin]

It's looks, you scrotal sucking amateurs.

Personality doesn't make me walk over to you at a bar, your big tits and your low cut shirt do.

[Poseidon]

It's looks, you scrotal sucking amateurs.

Personality doesn't make me walk over to you at a bar, your big tits and your low cut shirt do.

Quoted for unadulterated truth.

[idk]

I go for personality more, because there are loads of beautiful people in the world. I like to be more selective in my picking.

Of course, I care about beauty, but it doesn't mean shit if I don't see any possibility of anything in the realm of compatibility.

[Jinxieminx]

Sooo, you go for looks? Iight, cool.

[Jinxieminx]

But you go for looks foremost, correct?

[Jinxieminx]

Well, at least you're honest about it.

[piraya]

But hey! Goodlooking people don't necessarily have a bad personality! :D

[Jinxieminx]

I didn't say they did.

[piraya]

I didn't say you said they did.
x)

[Jinxieminx]

I didn't say you said I said they did.

[skorpion]

I go for boobs !!
cant help it

[soggytoast]

someone that has it all

you called?

[Njord]

I wonder when was the last time our Piraya had a boyfriend

[LoveBullets]

Personality, but looks are highly encouraged. I usually overlook the looks if the person has a great personality, though.

[Jinxieminx]

Personality, but looks are highly encouraged. I usually overlook the looks if the person has a great personality, though.

This sounds like a job advertisement lolol

[LoveBullets]

This sounds like a job advertisement lolol
It is.
For a very important job.
;D

[Jinxieminx]

It is.
For a very important job.
;D

Penis bigger than clit required... rofl.

[LoveBullets]

penis bigger than clit required... Rofl.
YOU HEAR THAT, SIR?caps

[Njord]

Hey, fuck you

[piraya]

you called?
hehehe i like

[piraya]

I wonder when was the last time our Piraya had a boyfriend
yeh me too. too high expectations

[Jinxieminx]

Piraya, when's the last time you came? Sorry guise had to get in there first ;D

[soggytoast]

hehehe i like

i know right.

[ohhappyday]

Okay, yeah you notice looks at first glance. But after you start talking to the good looking guy, and his conversational skills are crap, he begins to look less and less good looking. The same is true of the average looking guy, sure he looks okay, but when you start talking to him, and he makes you laugh and can contribute well to your conversation, he begins to look more and more good looking as time goes on. :) So yeah, personality wins all the time.

[TLK]

Piraya, mmk.

You look like the daughter of The Joker and a Mrs. Potato Head.

For visual reference sake...


http://lawrenceyong.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/joker.jpg

+

http://www.neonraven.com/images/mrs%20phead.jpg

=

http://www.teenageforums.com/customavatars/avatar13769_2.gif


So I most certainly wouldn't be one to exclaim "I ONLY LIKE GOOD LOOKING GUYS" from the rooftops just yet.

[Malarkey]

I can avoid looking (or just not look very much) at people that I find unattractive, or there's always meeting only at night / the dark.

However, unfortunately for the people with bad personality, I can't put my hands over my ears to block out their inane chatter without all but the dumbest ones noticing this.

So, personality wins.

[Pwnagekyatt]

Looks and personality are both equally important. A person maybe attracted to you for your looks, but they won't like you if you turn out to be a total snob.

[Tommeh!!!]

Personality is the most important in the long run, but its usually looks that gets the initial attraction. :/

Having said that i completely agree with what ohhappyday said.

Although this is also very true: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liR5w8VyPUA

[Leon]

Okay, yeah you notice looks at first glance. But after you start talking to the good looking guy, and his conversational skills are crap, he begins to look less and less good looking. The same is true of the average looking guy, sure he looks okay, but when you start talking to him, and he makes you laugh and can contribute well to your conversation, he begins to look more and more good looking as time goes on. :) So yeah, personality wins all the time.This is the perfect answer for men or women.

[tearsandhearts]

Personality is more important to me, because I want you to be caring and make me laugh. If you are good looking but crap at conversations, there is no point :)I love my bf and think he is hot, but others might not. Depends on your taste etc. Beautiful people get uglier to me the minute I find out there personality is not to my taste and vice versa:)

[Claireapillar]

i would normally have agreed that it's pretty much both that are important, but that personality wins overall.

However my current relationship, we met online...and neither of us saw one another, and started off just talking and formed a good friendship. Then we just realised we had a lot in common and took it from there really. So i'm not sure looks necessarily have to factor in...

and in all honest, he isn't my type at all, and if i had met him say in a bar or something similar, and it had been initial looks as opposed to personality, i know we wouldn't have ended up together.

But i agree that looks are important, i mean if you don't find someone the slightest bit attractive, i don't think you could contemplate being with them.

[Njord]

and in all honest, he isn't my type at all, and if i had met him say in a bar or something similar, and it had been initial looks as opposed to personality, i know we wouldn't have ended up together.
I agree, because he can hopefully do better.

[Tommeh!!!]

that was pretty uncalled for :/

[Claireapillar]

I agree, because he can hopefully do better.

he can do better, he just refuses to for some reason...

[-Megan-]

Personality is the most important in the long run, but its usually looks that gets the initial attraction. :/


Totally agree! I was a bit interested in Michael before we started dating, but I didn't know him very well, I just thought he was cute. It was once he told me he liked me and we started talking more that I realised he had a lovely personality too.

[[[Lost_in_stereo]]]

Personality is an essential.
Listen, you can date a guy who is like majorly hot, but can be a complete asshole or you can date a guy who is "nerdy looking," but is the sweetest thing ever.
Get to know the person's personality first. Also, only you can change yourself. Not someone else. If they are nerdy looking, oh well. At least you know they won't cheat behind your back.

[NoelBombShell]

Looks get my attention, personality keeps it.


I like a guy to look clean, and healthy.
Like, in good shape but not too muscular.
And hair thats not flaky or greasy, nice teeth, smells good.

But I've never been interested in someone who was particulary good looking,
but acted like a dousher.

[GruntToBe]

Looks get my attention, personality keeps it.




Definitely agree. No matter how attractive, if they don't have a personality to match, not happening.

[Njord]

Looks get my attention, personality keeps it.


I like a guy to look clean, and healthy.
Like, in good shape but not too muscular.
And hair thats not flaky or greasy, nice teeth, smells good.

But I've never been interested in someone who was particulary good looking,
but acted like a dousher.

When have you ever been interested in someone anyway? Haven't you dated your bf for damn near your entire young adult life?

[NoelBombShell]

When have you ever been interested in someone anyway? Haven't you dated your bf for damn near your entire young adult life?


Aww, you're so interested in me and I've never seen or thought of you before now.
You little creep you. ;*

[Duvets]

Hmm, no. I believe you've mentioned it in several threads and your habit of telling us more information about your life than necessary is probably why he's picked up on it.

[soggytoast]

Aww, you're so interested in me and I've never seen or thought of you before now.
You little creep you. ;*


i know you work in a pet shop around 10 minutes from detroit with a 6'2 boss.

i know you model.

i know what kind of car you want to buy.

i know your parents (or at least one) has a criminal record?


if we're being creepy, would you like me to find your house on googlemaps?

[LoveBullets]

i know you work in a pet shop around 10 minutes from detroit with a 6'2 boss.

i know you model.

i know what kind of car you want to buy.

i know your parents (or at least one) has a criminal record?


if we're being creepy, would you like me to find your house on googlemaps?
She also has all this information on her "about me."

[NoelBombShell]

Damn I feel loved.

[Jinxieminx]

I could get real creepy here if I wanted to...

[vampireonion]

I could get real creepy here if I wanted to...
Oops, too late.

[Jinxieminx]

O... ryt... :(

But I fort u luv'd me bby?

[vampireonion]

I love your creepy ways, but you have to lay off that IP tracker.

[Jinxieminx]

Can I keep with my FB searches tho bby?

[NoelBombShell]

Is it really hard to find me on Facebook? I feel like my name is uncommon enough to find easily. All my pet store stalkers do.

[Njord]

Give me a pic and 5 secs and I've got you. Maybe Soggy and I will show up at a photoshoot with our dicks out for you. That'll be an awesome anecdote to add to your collection.

[Jinxieminx]

Is it really hard to find me on Facebook? I feel like my name is uncommon enough to find easily. All my pet store stalkers do.

I already know your facebook, that's the point.

[Poseidon]

Looks.

Wait, was this a serious thread? Oh well, still looks.

[soggytoast]

Give me a pic and 5 secs and I've got you. Maybe Soggy and I will show up at a photoshoot with our dicks out for you. That'll be an awesome anecdote to add to your collection.

or maybe me and you can just meet up with our dicks out :3

[lawlseanny]

Soggy ad Njord are both fans of docking.

[soggytoast]

i don't know what that is.......... but i probably am.

[lawlseanny]

"Docking - The act of placing the head of ones penis inside the foreskin of another's penis."

[soggytoast]

"Docking - The act of placing the head of ones penis inside the foreskin of another's penis."

is that even....possible?

[Jinxieminx]

http://www.sonnyradio.com/susanboylebanner.jpg

[Poseidon]

http://i31.tinypic.com/2vjaqo0.png

[gman4354]

Both, although mostly personality.
You want someone that you love both on the inside and out.

When you first fall in love with someone it's usually their look that first hit you, but then you start to get to know them and you begin to love their personality also.

Although, I'm not saying they have to be beautiful by society's standard... As long as they are beautiful in YOUR eyes, that's all that really matters.

[nicolekjh]

easiest way for me to put it...
you could be the most gorgeous guy i've ever seen but if you have a shit personality, no chance.

[Pinki_1o1]

If I'm attracted to your personality than you're looks are attractive to me.