Marriage

[Mamfy]

I was wondering whether anyone had a certain age they would like to get married at.

I personally don't want to get married til I'm at least 21. That way I will have finished at university and met lots of new people, then I can think about getting married.

I would also like to have 2 kids, like a girl and a boy. I know we can't plan it or anything but that would be relaly nice. I'm not saying if I had two girls I wouldn't like it, or if I had 2 boys it would be bad or whatever. That's just what I think:)

What about everyone else?

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I don't want to get married untill I'm out of college and have a steady job. I wanna be able to support my family and not worry about how we'll survive.


This is assuming I EVER get married...hell...if I ever manage to get myself a boyfriend..heh.

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah i kinda have these things thought out aswel :) i think bout what sex children and stuff....even though its stupid to because u cant pick and choose, but yeah..erm marriage, wow, im waitin till im at least 21!! anything sooner would be stupid because im 21 in 5 years and i dont even have a bf...

[Mamfy]

I want children but I just don't want to HAVE the children, as in,. give birth lol!
And when they're toddlers it gets SO much hard work and annoying, can't I have them when they are teenagerS?:P

Lol joke:D

[Bob!]

2 lads with a couple o yrs distance between, lasses are jus too much to manage and buy for, an ya only gunna be worryin bout em all the time as they grow up.

Plus when lads are lil toddlers ya can play "wha booosh" as ma bro likes to call it. basically beat the hell outa im an throw im round the room hehe :D

Anyways for marriage i dunno, the age has no relevance to me, if it was a person really loved an had been with for a while, an was in good financial situation an the rest, then, marry time :P

[xxrachxx]

i wanna get married bout 25-30 n av kids bout 24

[*fender.chiq*]

I pretty much planned my like till I'm 30.. Lol.

I'll get out of university when I'm about 23/24. I'd like to have a serious and stable relationship with a guy who I really loved. I'd get married when the time felt right really, and the relationship was stable and serious enough to withhold marriage. When I'm about 30 I want to have kids. I really hate the though of giving birth. I mean, jeez, I nearly collapse with cramps, and my lovely mother informed me they're like the start of labour. :| But yeah, well I'd like to have either 2 or 3 children. I love the names Lara, Emily and Cara. Ideally I'd like two girls and one boy. But obviously, I wouldn't mind what arrived on the day :P If I have a boy I'll call it Bob. Because it's cuteh :P And Emily, Lara and Bob sounds neat and tidy, lol.

Obviously, all of this will only go to plan if I actually find a stable boyfriend.. I haven't planned for that eventuality yet.

The only other option is I become a spinster.

[~sexy_biatch~]

i dont want to have kids too late in life, but i wanna get married first i think.
But kids...i want them when im like in my early 20's cos like they will talk to ya more (if you have girls) and i would me more in fashion and relate to them more!!

[fcuk4forest]

Yer I wanna have kids any sex (preferabally oral :D) so I could take them to Forest home and away so they could get the away bug :D If I got a bird pregnant now, i'd get a job and stand by her even if we wasn't going out or anything.

I'd like to get married one day but I haven't a clue when lol.

[*fender.chiq*]

i dont want to have kids too late in life, but i wanna get married first i think.
But kids...i want them when im like in my early 20's cos like they will talk to ya more (if you have girls) and i would me more in fashion and relate to them more!!

I get what you mean Kaye, but I have a pretty good relationship with my mum and she had me when she was 28.

I think it all depends on how you bring your children up as to whether they confide in you about personal things. I was brought up knowing i could tell my mum anything if I ever needed, yet my friend can't talk to her mum about anything personal, because she was never brought up to have a close relationship with her mum.

However, if I was to have children early in my life, it would be hard work with university and settling down to find work and a house etc all at once I guess.

[Edit: And Forest.. Having kids by oral? That's a new one :P]

[~sexy_biatch~]

Your a gentleman!! Most lads wouldnt stick by a lass if she was preggie

[~sexy_biatch~]

yeah i know what ya mean jhess.
But i dunno, if you have kids earlia your more free in later life and know you grandkids longer....putin it nicely!

[*fender.chiq*]

yeah i know what ya mean jhess.
But i dunno, if you have kids earlia your more free in later life and know you grandkids longer....putin it nicely!

Lol, that's true Kaye.

I want to see grandchildren growing up, instead of pushing up the daisies :P

But I guess we'll be living longer by then anyway.

Roll on my 150th birthday :D

[~sexy_biatch~]

lmao yay i cant wait till im 200! hehe i might know my great great great grandchildren...damn that means i will have to like have a kid now :|

[*fender.chiq*]

Not if yar going to live till your 200th Kaye :P

[~sexy_biatch~]

i like to start early :P soooo...whos wants to be the dad?

[fcuk4forest]

Your a gentleman!! Most lads wouldnt stick by a lass if she was preggie

In my eyes, I wouldn't have much of a choice. My responsibility.

[hevence]

to b honest went it happens it happens:P because i have been with my boyfriend about 4 years nw and we are both really happy

but i would really like to b over 20 to get married and have children
we should be getting our own flat by the end of the year woohoo!!

[Mamfy]

Aww sweet:D

I want to get married before I have kids definitely. I guess it makes the m arriage and the baby more special if they are separate from each other(if that makes sense:D)

[fcuk4forest]

If you have kids before marriage, it'll take forever to get married because you'll never save enough money cos it'll all go on kids.

[manutd 4 ever]

Yer I wanna have kids any sex (preferabally oral :D) so I could take them to Forest home and away so they could get the away bug :D If I got a bird pregnant now, i'd get a job and stand by her even if we wasn't going out or anything.

I'd like to get married one day but I haven't a clue when lol.

lol im calling the NSPCC now....

[fcuk4forest]

lol im calling the NSPCC now....

I dint mean with the kids like!!!

[manutd 4 ever]

I dint mean with the kids like!!!

i meant with you taking kids to Forest games lol!

[Mamfy]

HAHA well said:P

[manutd 4 ever]

HAHA well said:P

:D ya know it makes sense!!

[~sexy_biatch~]

lmao!
and yeah that makes sense about having kids after a wedding..

[Mamfy]

Yeah, that's when I want them(if I am brave enough to go through with the pregnancy:S)

[~sexy_biatch~]

Yeah oh the pain!
I guess they must be worth it though...

[Mamfy]

You guess:P

[~sexy_biatch~]

yes, im good at guessing :D (not reallli) "lalalala" sorri im bored.

When i get married i want the works :D

[Mamfy]

Church? Horse and cart? white dress? Bouquets? Honeymoon?

If so, me too:D

[~sexy_biatch~]

haha not sure bouts horse and cart.....smelly pooooo :P
but yeah to the rest! and i want the best honeymoon ever!
Holiday marriages can be good 2....but mite just do that to renew vows *thinks* haha why am i thinkin all this anyway..

[Mamfy]

I think I'd want my marriage day to be special therefore I wouldn't want it on a beach or anything because it doesn't seem real somehow.

But, If I didn't really have much money I wouldn't spend a lot on the day, because it's not the DAY that matters, it's the days of your life you are going to spend together forever:D

[~sexy_biatch~]

The day is a good thing to start on....plus the after parties are greeeat :P
But i guess yeah its the times after you have to be more concerned about!!

[BleedBlack]

well, i think i'd like to get married around 25-30, live my life a bit first. i always wanted to be a young mum, but ive seen how things have turned out for my mum, and i'd rather not. 2 little girls would be great, i'd treat them like little princess's. and if i had 2 little boys, they'd be my little prince charmings.
i've always liked the idea of a wedding in a nice garden or something too.

[pk ben]

yeh itd be cool to be with the girl il wana marry, but it wont be for a while yet, education outta the way, then a career plan of some sort after uni, then mess about n have fun for a while, then see how it goes.
omg itd be amazing to have kids, id love to teach my kid to play footie and id take him to wednesday matches. id be so proud.

if i got a girl up the duff (unlikely, knowing my luck im infertile) id take the attitude that its not exactly wat was planned, its not the perfect situation, but it dont matter cos its gona happen n il do my best by my preggers girl and my kid.

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I'd love to have a little boy someday...I'm not saying I'd say no to a girl...not much choice in that...haha...but I think having a little boy would be alot of fun. It'd be easier to raise a boy. I've seen some of my guy friends with their mom's and I adore the relationships they have.

I'd wanna name him either Hunter or Michael.

[Mamfy]

I'd want to name my little boy Harvey or Harly:D

And the girl Cleo or Maddy I think:D

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Aww! I want to name my daughter Maddy!

[Jessicar]

I know someone named maddy :D
Shes fab and mad and has an obsession with turkeys.

[Patriot1776]

I'm probably going to get married in my 30's that way I can almost guarentee that we can settle into to life without too many problems.

[Mamfy]

I think Maddy(or maddie) Is such a lovely name!:D

Heh beat you to it bri;)

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Haha...That's fine.


I'll just spell it differently.


:P

[pk ben]

my sister had a baby just over a year ago; she named her olivia. 2 of my cousins (boys) have recently had baby girls too; they called them alex and maddy.

[Mamfy]

AWw maddy is a cute name. Bri, can I spell it IE?:D

Heh, gotcha:D