Did you/When did you lose your virginity?

[pressure]

duno if thsi si ok to go in here but i spose it can be moved if necessary

when did you lose ur virginity?
how old was you and ur partner?

i was 16 and my bf was 18

were are still together now :)

[Shane]

I guess its ok when you feel ready which can vary but you should always use protection if you are not prepared and/or not capable of lookign after your own child!

[pressure]

I guess its ok when you feel ready which can vary but you should always use protection if you are not prepared and/or not capable of lookign after your own child!


where did that come from lol

we do use prtection and i dnt have a child !!!

[Shane]

I am just saying, its upto the person whether or not to have it. All other people can do is give advice which is what I am doing!


Play safe children!

[pressure]

im only asking when and i suppose if they have lost it?
how old were they?

everyone should 'play safe' as you say, even the first time

[Mamfy]

Well I am 15, take a guess lol!

[pressure]

Well I am 15, take a guess lol!

my brother is 15, hes had sex

people have sex at all ages nowadays lol

they should wait til they are 16 if not til they have been in a realtionship of at least 6 months
but in my opinion no-one under 15 should be having sex but its up to the person

[Mamfy]

Well, I don't want to have sex until I am at the legal age and with someone I love and who loves me back.

I know of more GUYS doing it underage than girls I think:S

[Bob!]

Hell no, when I was at school all the lasses were just as bad, wantin askin an gettin it just for the fact that theyd done it/gettin it, not carin who it was with, long as it was a "bad boi" lol.

Anyways I havto admit I havent myself yet, at 17. But slappers dont really appeal to me so, whatever lol.

[pressure]

Well, I don't want to have sex until I am at the legal age and with someone I love and who loves me back.

I know of more GUYS doing it underage than girls I think:S

yeah you should wait til you love someone, means so much more


Hell no, when I was at school all the lasses were just as bad, wantin askin an gettin it just for the fact that theyd done it/gettin it, not carin who it was with, long as it was a "bad boi" lol.

Anyways I havto admit I havent myself yet, at 17. But slappers dont really appeal to me so, whatever lol.

most girls i know say they have done it but havnt, 'bad boi's are so not my scene, cnt be dealing with em

sex without emotion isnt worth it in my eyes

[Mikhael]

hmmm.. 14 .anyways no girls in ma scool wood dare . i sad a joke in scool about ma best m8 and his girls friend to her and they just looked at me as if to want to slap me she then said "i wouldnt im only 14 "
really funi

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

I'll be 18 in about 5 months and I'm still a virgin. I carry a condom in my wallet, though. Just in case.

[BleedBlack]

i was 15. my boyfriend at the time was 16. we were together for 11 months when it happened & we loved each other lots.

[Stephanie]

my brother is 15, hes had sex

How'd you find out that your brother had had sex before???

[~sexy_biatch~]

More girls in my school have had sex than ladz.
This is because most of the girls at my skool are slavs (slags n chav's)
They all go for the "bad boy" with the car and about 2 or 3 years older.
My mate from school was either 13 or 14 *things* she was 14 when she lost it, shes had 5 pregnancy tests since..

[BleedBlack]

^ it's like the exact same at my school. me & my mate were goin through our classes and there were like 2 chicks that were virgins in the whole room and about 8 guys that were! half the chicks at my school r all whores & like u said into the older guys who drive & stuff.

Oh...and i found this pretty pathetic.. this one chick got pregnant & said she had narrowed the dad down to about 5 guys...

[manutd 4 ever]

^ it's like the exact same at my school. me & my mate were goin through our classes and there were like 2 chicks that were virgins in the whole room and about 8 guys that were! half the chicks at my school r all whores & like u said into the older guys who drive & stuff.

Oh...and i found this pretty pathetic.. this one chick got pregnant & said she had narrowed the dad down to about 5 guys...


:D hahahaha dont know why that made me laugh "narrowed the dad down to about 5 guys"...

[Mamfy]

Notice how you haven't told us Manu:P

[manutd 4 ever]

me?

lol was 15-16 cant really remember.

was nothin special, didnt know what to do, lol looked so easy on the porno films..

[Mamfy]

*tuts*:P

Is that where you get ideas?

[BleedBlack]

looked so easy on the porno films..

LMAO!!!! hahaha, that's so funny.

[manutd 4 ever]

*tuts*:P

Is that where you get ideas?

lol if you've seen some of the stuff i have, you'll be inspired....

[Mamfy]

*looks shocked*

[BleedBlack]

lol if you've seen some of the stuff i have, you'll be inspired....
*rolls eyes* boys...

[hevence]

i was 14 but i was with my partner ages b4

ive only slept with one person though :o

an i use contraception :)

[pressure]

How'd you find out that your brother had had sex before???


he told me

we have a very good relationship, he tells me nearly everything

i mean, i dont wana know EVERYTHING (EWWWWWWWWWWWW)

[*fender.chiq*]

I'm 14 and still unsexed, lol. Tbh, it doesn't bother me one bit. I won't have sex till I'm in a serious, stable relationship with a guy I really love. And it will most probably be when I'm 16 or over too.

A lot of the slapperish chav girls have had sex in my year. There's always the stories going round about them and what they've done. Everyone seems to know. And they think nothing of it either. They're usually having sex with guys who're 16+ with jobs, cars, etc etc. Though a few are having sex with guys in my year, and the year above too.

[pressure]

I'm 14 and still unsexed, lol. Tbh, it doesn't bother me one bit. I won't have sex till I'm in a serious, stable relationship with a guy I really love. And it will most probably be when I'm 16 or over too.

A lot of the slapperish chav girls have had sex in my year. There's always the stories going round about them and what they've done. Everyone seems to know. And they think nothing of it either. They're usually having sex with guys who're 16+ with jobs, cars, etc etc. Though a few are having sex with guys in my year, and the year above too.


the girls probably only do it to be 'big' and the boys only do it for another 'notch on their bedpost'

waiting for someone you love is much more fulfilling and as i said means alot more too

[*fender.chiq*]

To be honest, I wouldn't just have sex with any guy to gain credit from my peers or to feel 'big'. It's a matter of when I feel emotional and maturely ready for sex, and even if I felt ready now, I wouldn't do it just for the sake of it. So many women wish they'd've waited till they were older and more mature and in a better relationship. I don't want to be like that. I want to be able to look back on it as a moment in my life when I was very happy and in love.

It's like a personal milestone, I wouldn't want to waste that.

[Bob!]

Blokes prob do it so they look good to their m8s, lasses do it so they look good to the lads, they know that if they be outward and slapperish, theyll get all the lads after em, and they liek as many as poss at one time.

But, not my thing lol.

[~sexy_biatch~]

A lot of girls i know haved fucked the same guy, and they brag about it :S they all say its my turn for him next....im like no way

[BleedBlack]

Blokes prob do it so they look good to their m8s, lasses do it so they look good to the lads, they know that if they be outward and slapperish, theyll get all the lads after em, and they liek as many as poss at one time.

But, not my thing lol.

the thing is, once a girl become like that, guys are gonna see her as just someone to sleep with and not get a decent bloke who is actually gonna care about her.
At my school for exaple - half the tramps there r like this, just sleeping with anyone really. And when i chat to my guy friends about it, there just like yeah got no respect for her anymore.

[Stephanie]

he told me

we have a very good relationship, he tells me nearly everything

i mean, i dont wana know EVERYTHING (EWWWWWWWWWWWW)


So what was his first expierence like?


And he doesn't tell you about his masturbation does he?? :hmmm:

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

That'd be increadibly awkward....oh my.

[manutd 4 ever]

*rolls eyes* boys...


hehehe....you really need to visit the 'boys' only forum...

[Stephanie]

i was 14 but i was with my partner ages b4

ive only slept with one person though :o

an i use contraception :)

Which contraception do you use?

[<^>Mikey<^>]

hehehe....you really need to visit the 'boys' only forum...

wheres that??

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

You have to request access to it.


And Stephanie...you're increadibly curious, arent you?

[manutd 4 ever]

Which contraception do you use?

:confused: condoms..pills....err not c$%%&*( inside etc etc etc

[<^>Mikey<^>]

You have to request access to it.

and how do i do that?

[manutd 4 ever]

^ PM shane.

[Stephanie]

And Stephanie...you're increadibly curious, arent you?

Sure am...sorry...I won't ask any more questions. :):P

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Haha...I didn't mean anything bad by that....it just made me giggle.

[manutd 4 ever]

Haha...I didn't mean anything bad by that....it just made me giggle.

what else makes u giggle?..

[Bob!]

and how do i do that?

You might not be granted access cause of security reasons as ur stephanies bro, would be too easy for people in the same house to see in either forum then :hmmm:

Shanes descision really, ull havto ask him.

[pressure]

So what was his first expierence like?


And he doesn't tell you about his masturbation does he?? :hmmm:


he loved his first experience and NO he doesnt tell me about masturbation, theres a line he cnt cross lol

always use condoms, some ppl (like me) cnt take the pill

[hevence]

Which contraception do you use?

im on the pill u?

[pressure]

id love to be on the pill

would make my life so much easier

even if u r on the pill i would still use condoms, no contraceptive is 100%

[xxrachxx]

i was 16, and it was with my ex, id been with him 6 weeks, we broke up, and then had sex

[Stephanie]

im on the pill u?

Abstinence :hmmm:

[claire]

i was 17 and it was a one night stand unfortunately!

[manutd 4 ever]

i was 16, and it was with my ex, id been with him 6 weeks, we broke up, and then had sex

eh????

[Bob!]

She means it was with sumone she had been with 6 weeks, just they decided to have sex AFTER they broke up, lol.

Suppose its a hellova way o makin breakin up better lol.

[manutd 4 ever]

She means it was with sumone she had been with 6 weeks, just they decided to have sex AFTER they broke up, lol.

Suppose its a hellova way o makin breakin up better lol.

blimey, first time i heard that's happend...

lol yeah..one hellova way...

[Mikhael]

read the sig all i can sayy

[hevence]

id love to be on the pill

would make my life so much easier

even if u r on the pill i would still use condoms, no contraceptive is 100%

ive bn on the pill 4 years now an still no children :)

my other half says its like wearing a raincoat in the bath hehe

[pressure]

ive bn on the pill 4 years now an still no children :)

my other half says its like wearing a raincoat in the bath hehe


lol
he wears raincoats in the bath? lmao

id still use it, theres always still a small chance :)

if it works for you then YAY lol

[hevence]

no he dont its just a saying lmao :D

i think the pill is good

have u heard of n injection thats works the same as the pill??


Abstinence :hmmm:
whats that?:confused:

the pill is a tablet if ur not to sure

[pressure]

no he dont its just a saying lmao :D

i think the pill is good

have u heard of n injection thats works the same as the pill??

im not allowed to have anything to do with the pill

so im kinda stuffed lol

[jesus'_bright_red_pants]

I haven't have sex yet and I am in no rush to. I'd rather wait until I am with a lad who I am comfortable with, and isn't a 'wham-bam-thank you ma'am' type of lad or who'll go bragging to his mates about it. It needs to be personal.

[pressure]

I haven't have sex yet and I am in no rush to. I'd rather wait until I am with a lad who I am comfortable with, and isn't a 'wham-bam-thank you ma'am' type of lad or who'll go bragging to his mates about it. It needs to be personal.


totally agree with that

wait til ur with someone u love :)

much better :)

[Bob!]

I thought on the old forum you said you had but you regretted it Kelly :wacko:

[fcuk4forest]

I thought on the old forum you said you had Kelly :wacko:

So did I. I wasn't going to say anything incase it was me losing my mind! lol

[*fender.chiq*]

I don't remember her saying she had to be honest.. But I'll say I'll give her the benefit of the doubt :P

[xxrachxx]

im not back with him though lol
so it isnt a hellova way to make up lol

[jesus'_bright_red_pants]

I thought on the old forum you said you had but you regretted it Kelly :wacko:Nope I haven't. I ain't that stupid :)

[Jessicar]

I think kelly said if she had she would have regretted it.

[fcuk4forest]

I think kelly said if she had she would have regretted it.

That'd be it then.

I'm just glad i'm not losing my mind!

[Stephanie]

whats that?:confused:

the pill is a tablet if ur not to sure

Abstinence means not having sex at all. And I know what the pill is! lol..I know most contraceptives; condoms, diaphrams, withdrawel method, vasectomy, tubal ligation, spermicide, douching, IUDs, Rhythm method, etc.

[*fender.chiq*]

Abstinence is a hard commitment to make. On the old forum I posted a massive post on abstience and the movement in America's teenagers right now!

[pressure]

stop me if im wrong but isnt the pill somethgin you atke to make ur periods regular and to stop getting pregnant

i dnt take it so i could be wrong

[*fender.chiq*]

Yeah, the pill is a tablet containing hormones to regulate periods and stop pregnancy.

There's lots of different forms though, and not all of them do the same job. But basically, the pill's there to stop pregnancy and regulate periods, yes.

[Mamfy]

If you take the pill as a contraception, it doesn't prevent you from STI's or anything like that.

[*fender.chiq*]

Same as IUDs, that coily thing.. And almost everything.

I think the condom is easiest and most effective. It has a 99% chance of working, but it also protects you from STIs, which a lot of other forms of contraception don't.

[pressure]

Yeah, the pill is a tablet containing hormones to regulate periods and stop pregnancy.

There's lots of different forms though, and not all of them do the same job. But basically, the pill's there to stop pregnancy and regulate periods, yes.


ah cool i was right

the mini-pill or whatever its called, was sumfin i was sposed to have, but i couldnt, the doc gave me pain killers instead

is the mini-pill the same or is it different?

[*fender.chiq*]

I don't know what the 'mini-pill' is exactly, but I'm guessing I know what it is.

I think it's different. It will be a form of the pill, to probably make your periods lighter and regular, and reduce the effects of the monthly hormones on your body.

Were you supposed to be put on it due to period pain, and that's why you got pain killers instead?

[pressure]

Were you supposed to be put on it due to period pain, and that's why you got pain killers instead?


yeah
they wnated me on it to regulate it and shit but due to my blood the doc wouldnt allow it

i thought if i knew exactly when it was comin i could prepare for it and take pain killers but the doc said i werent allowed it

[Stephanie]

Abstinence is a hard commitment to make. On the old forum I posted a massive post on abstience and the movement in America's teenagers right now!

lol...I'm not planning to be a virgin forever you know!! Just until I'm in a good relationship! :P

[Mikhael]

ahh.. i see this is a cheer subject so eh.... i found a full multi-pack of condoms and i through them at people and put them in peoples bags at scool . lol

[*fender.chiq*]

Lmfao.. Er.. O.o

Were they a decent brand aswell? Lolol

[Mamfy]

And did they have a picture of a kite mark showing that they are safe registered condoms oh mikey?:P

[Mikhael]

nope. but they were "lemon scented" and "structured "i think really funny

[iloveroddy]

i was 13 and my boyfriend was 14 .. we are not together now .. *tear*

[Pearson]

13!!! you wernt waiting around were you

[Mamfy]

I don't want to have sex underage

[*Jess*]

I want to wait til im at least 16. I just couldnt live with having sex underage. and if i got forced to have sex the guy really wouldnt be worth it.

[Boy_Wonder06]

simple answer i ent even lost it yet... i know how lame it sounds but never mind lol. its my choice at the moment. i obviously dont appeal to any of my friends lol, or we're just all too mature .

[*Jess*]

I dont appeal to anybody except complete strangers.
:D its great.
A guy im sure i have never seen before in my life fancies me apparently. How strange. Hes seen me, i dont know how.

[Haunting_Echoes]

I'm waiting until I'm married.... Simple as that. As is my fiance. We just feel it's right, so we are.

[Brianna.]

I'll be 18 in February and I've yet to lose it.

[Mamfy]

Also perfectly illegal:D


Sorry, had an urge to do it!

[deprived1]

well, lets just say i lost it and u dont really need to know more than that

[BleedBlack]

Also perfectly illegal:D


Sorry, had an urge to do it!

i don't understand that at all. I can understand the law of like if someone is 40 having sex with someone who is 15. But when they are within 2 years or whatnot i think a law against that is ridiculous.

[Pearson]

how come you can have sex when your 16, but you cant watch a porno till your 18?

Does that mean if i have sex i wont be able to watch?

[Shane]

how come you can have sex when your 16, but you cant watch a porno till your 18?

Does that mean if i have sex i wont be able to watch?
You got a good point there. Never really thought about that!

Is the age being lowered for lads to have sex to 14?

[ooobubblezooo]

umm i know that in SC its 15 for guys

[Patriot1776]

Its 16 in Vermont, but my religion requires that I can't do it until I'm married.

So I might end up being in my early 30's

[Brianna.]

You have to be 18 in Colorado.

[Richiecroft]

This is stupid, whenever you have sex or in the young'un's case Sexual Intercourse lol, its no-one else's business. its personal. Fancy walking down the street and hear two gals or even guys saying who shagged who, and when, and even where!!! Well if you live in London its common to hear such goings on, but lets not go there lol. So from my perspective im keepin myself (undisclosed!)

[Sponge'K'nob]

lads being lowered to 14?! =O
Thats just sexiest........

[poisongirl]

im a christian so im jus gonna wait until im married lol

is nebody else in the same situation?

[BleedBlack]

is nebody else in the same situation?

i'm definatly not. i'm not religious at all. i don't mean to knock religions at all or offend anyone but i think it's ridiculous when people are just doing things because a certain religion allows/doesn't allow them to.

and pearson about that porn thing...isn't it just you can't buy/rent it or whatever when you are under 18..not that you can't actually look at it or whatnot..?

[Bob!]

lads being lowered to 14?! =O
Thats just sexiest........
Thats because lads don't get pregnant.

Still too young anyways in my opinion.

[Pearson]

i'm definatly not. i'm not religious at all. i don't mean to knock religions at all or offend anyone but i think it's ridiculous when people are just doing things because a certain religion allows/doesn't allow them to.

and pearson about that porn thing...isn't it just you can't buy/rent it or whatever when you are under 18..not that you can't actually look at it or whatnot..?

It wa just a joke flower... IMO you should be able to have sex whenever you want just as long as your aware of the possible consiquences. As for the religion things, theres loads of other things that jesus said that you dont do. I jus think you're scared of sex. If you were in love with a lass and she were a bit randy....I reckon you'd do it.

[Sponge'K'nob]

Thats because lads don't get pregnant.

Still too young anyways in my opinion.
HAHAHA
that means a 14 year old lad can only fuck another 14 year old guy.
I mean come on....what 16 n 17 year old lass is gonna shag a 14 year old?!

[Bob!]

lol, ud rather it be lowered for both so everyone can jus get to shaggin each other at 14? Hell theres enough young girls with babies as it is, one o ma dads m8s daughters has one an she's 14, was a nice lass as well.

Anyways I was just saying thats the reason for the age barrier being different.

[Sponge'K'nob]

i dont think it should change legal wise.
people just do it anyway.....

[Bob!]

Exactly, but some are restricted because morally they know theyre too young, cause of the fact the legal age is 16, so if it was lowered then even more would all be doing it because of the lack of the legality/morality on their conscience.

[melty_malty]

I was 13 at the time

[lil_sawa]

i havnt lost it yet, alot of people ask me why i havnt but when it comes to sex it dont realli bother me..... hehe

[claire]

I find it shallow when people ask you "why" you haven't lost it yet. Is it really their buisness, whats the rush, its not a big deal is it! there aint an age limit on when you must lose your virginity!
Any ways I was 17 when i lost mine but i wasn't in any rush!

[ReAnImAtEd]

i was 15 n think legal age is a lil annoying at 16 but dint rly bother me 2 much

[Mamfy]

I have always said I'm not going to lose my virginity underage.

And it will stay that way:)

[Mikhael]

awww.....bless her
mamfys a good girl

[*Jess*]

Im a good girl too, coz im same as mamfeh.
No way am i losing it under 16.

[Bob!]

A lot will disagree but, good on ya u 2 lol.

Quite saddening nowdays ya can hardly find one lass that aint screwed half the village or has a kid or 2 already. Jus seems like a big race to give yaself to absoloutely anyone nowdays lol http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif

[manutd 4 ever]

^ lol thats the Manor for ya!!

[Brianna.]

I'll be 18 in about 2 months and I still have my V-card.

[manutd 4 ever]

^ what's one of those...sori feelin a little slow in head 2day...

[Brianna.]

hahaha....my virginity.


I call it my v-card.

[manutd 4 ever]

lol!!! people beta b carefull what card they give u for your birthday...

[Brianna.]

Hahahahaha!!


Very true.

[♥PrincessAlice♥]

2weeks after my 15th Birthday shame.... with a very ugly boy aswel

[Mamfy]

Me and Jess are goodies:D


Meh, I don't care what anyone says about me, my opinion won't change. I'd just rather wait til the right person really.

[BleedBlack]

hahaha....my virginity.


I call it my v-card.

Haha, me & my mates call it V-plates.

Except me, i'm my W-plates....well was..

[claire]

Me and Jess are goodies:D


Meh, I don't care what anyone says about me, my opinion won't change. I'd just rather wait til the right person really.

good for you :)

[Conal]

15 years of age

wow...

[happyaslarry]

i was 14 and my bf 14 it was like 4 days ago

[Mamfy]

ISn't your first time meant to hurt or not be very good or something?


Meh, shoot me if I'm wrong:D

[claire]

I suppose it would depend who you are with. It can hurt a fair bit, and some people bleed, but speaking for me, my first time was good.
I admit it wasn't ideal as I didnt really know the guy, but hey no point in living to regret it all!!

[BleedBlack]

ISn't your first time meant to hurt or not be very good or something?

apparently it hurts for alot of girl's, but not everyone.

[Mikhael]

^^^

Cant say id no !!!!!

But i dunt no when i will lose my " V-card " (hehe)

or what age ill be . but i am sure i will have lost it before im married ,unless i get married in the next few years

[dqNick]

i wont be losing my "V-Card" soon. I'll be losing mine when i've found the right girl. How sweet lmao

[timswfc]

it is supposed 2 hurt 4 girls first time innit cus their cherry will pop if it ant already n will get blood everywhere

[Mikhael]

Thanks for that much needed info tim !!!!




( 7oo th post woohooo)

[NATAL!E]

Thanks for that much needed info tim !!!!

Lmao. I was thinking the same to be honest..

It was the indepth of detail which scared me a bit..

But well. If you look at the previous comments, people have said anyway. But in a nicer form =P

[BleedBlack]

it is supposed 2 hurt 4 girls first time innit cus their cherry will pop if it ant already n will get blood everywhere

It's not supposed to do anything. Gosh. It is differnt for everyone...i think i already said this, but it's true.

And due to the fact that it didn't hurt at all for me, I can say it from experience.

[Entice]

it is supposed 2 hurt 4 girls first time innit cus their cherry will pop if it ant already n will get blood everywhere

The hymen shouldnt hurt when breaking.
It doesnt have any nerves or anything in it.
Hurts because your nervous and your muscles tense making it difficult for intercourse.

Lol.

[Bob!]

True, but basically either way the silly bast should be gentle for a while and not go at it like a pneumatic drill lol.

[Entice]

Lol, yes what Bob said.

Never heard it put like that

[Bob!]

I believe the americans call it a jackhammer lol, either ways, be gentle and get through the first part, and then that gives u a better time later.

Though thats all theorised assumption of course as I haven't actually got to that part yet lol. :rolleyes:

[Entice]

Lol, i was about to say, you seem to be speaking from experience.

[Bob!]

Naw, just from intellect lol.

But least if you say that its true then if it does happen, itl hopefully be a good experience, for both lol.

[Entice]

Key word: Hopefully.

I dont even know what im talking about anymore.

[NATAL!E]

LOLOLOL. Pneumatic drill XD

[timswfc]

so it will only hurt 4 the lass if ure rough n dnt do it gently

or cus shes all nervous?

i proded at my gfs hymen or wotever its calld once n she was hurtin..y is that?

[NATAL!E]

Tim.. You shouldn't go poking girls like that.. O_O

And it depends if the girl's nervous, worried, scared or whatever, then she'll be tense and it'll make the whole experience a little difficult. But if yer gentle and take it slowly, it'll be a bit easier. Though, as said many times, it depends on the girl.

[Bob!]

so it will only hurt 4 the lass if ure rough n dnt do it gently

or cus shes all nervous?

i proded at my gfs hymen or wotever its calld once n she was hurtin..y is that?

Least shes still got one lol, a rarity nowdays.

[NATAL!E]

Least shes still got one lol, a rarity nowdays.

:eek:

BOB!

Girls can lose them for all sorts of reasons, not just sechs!

[timswfc]

lol ye from horse riding they can...n she dus a lot of it but hasnt lost it

i dint prod it on purpose!!!!

it was wiv my fingers not my knob

[NATAL!E]

Lol. Loads of things can cause them to break. It's only to protect the last inside bits anyway.

And err.. That's good to know Tim, lol.

And not on purpose? o_O

[Bob!]

Meaning he didnt actually mean to touch it or hurt her or whatever lol.

Anyways, back on topic.

[Mikhael]

lol ye from horse riding they can...n she dus a lot of it but hasnt lost it

i dint prod it on purpose!!!!

it was wiv my fingers not my knob
so it will only hurt 4 the lass if ure rough n dnt do it gently

or cus shes all nervous?

i proded at my gfs hymen or wotever its calld once n she was hurtin..y is that?

Why do you have to go into so much detail and nat ... u seem to no alot about this ....

and tim how can u prod someones ahym by accident

[NATAL!E]

Why do you have to go into so much detail and nat ... u seem to no alot about this ....

.. What are you trying to say? Lol.

I know quite a lot of facts about this kind of stuff.. Just the way it is. Haha.

Not my fault I'm sechs obsessed =P Lmao.

[ And like Bob said.. Back onto the topic of Virginity.. ]

[Shane]

.. What are you trying to say? Lol.

I know quite a lot of facts about this kind of stuff.. Just the way it is. Haha.

Not my fault I'm sechs obsessed =P Lmao.

[ And like Bob said.. Back onto the topic of Virginity.. ]
Actually that would be your fault. Control yourself woman.

Please can things get back on topic now. This is a very serious thread.

Can I just remind people that if they need help on Sex at all then they can feel free to ask the Agony Helpers for advice. Its confidential so if you don't want any other members to read they will not be able to! :) I also have someone older to refer you to if you really desperatly need expert advice on this sort of thing. :)

[Mikhael]

And if i have any proba ill ask Nat :-D

It is a part of Growing up so if u need help ask me , Kaye , or conal and well do our best to help

Bak on subject still 14 and still got my " V- card "

[EssixOwl]

I find it hilarious that it's cool for today's youth's to lose there virginity ASAP. I also find it shocking when I walk down the street & I find 12yr's talking about "giving it" to there "bitches". Do they still teach sex education, to the young one's, or have they given up because they found it pointless teaching a bunch of idiots?

[Knowing1987]

I'm 18 and still a virgin.

[NATAL!E]

Oh, we get sex education alright.

But it seems practically the whole 'chav' population think it's cool to go out with guys for a week and bang them. Some don't even bother going out with a guy these days.

I sit in some of my lessons, and the chavs are talking about who's their bit on the side and all that. It's pretty disgusting really. Not only the fact they're doing it, but the fact they'll happily let everyone know, like it's something to be proud of.

It's the minority now, of youngsters who haven't actually had sex. And to tell you the truth, I think it's horrific. How can it be cool to do something which is so.. Important? I mean, it's a big emotional thing, phsyical thing and something which should just be for a bit of fun with someone.

I know that I won't have sex till I'm with someone I really, really trust and when i know I'm ready for such a big thing.

It's just a shame that not everyone sees it like that nowadays.

[Mamfy]

It is. It's meant to be so special and meant to mean alot but some people don't care about it and are happy to go ahead with it.

Personally, I am going to wait til I love someone and want to be with them all the time before I go doing something like that. It's so impersonal if it is done quickly or done with someone you don't intend to spend the rest of your life with.

[Bob!]

Aye, wi me its more like bein able to give sumone summat special, an be the only one to make em feel that way, an ya cant really do that if theyve already had it all from everywhere else lol.

[EssixOwl]

Oh, we get sex education alright.

But it seems practically the whole 'chav' population think it's cool to go out with guys for a week and bang them. Some don't even bother going out with a guy these days.

I sit in some of my lessons, and the chavs are talking about who's their bit on the side and all that. It's pretty disgusting really. Not only the fact they're doing it, but the fact they'll happily let everyone know, like it's something to be proud of.

It's the minority now, of youngsters who haven't actually had sex. And to tell you the truth, I think it's horrific. How can it be cool to do something which is so.. Important? I mean, it's a big emotional thing, phsyical thing and something which should just be for a bit of fun with someone.

I know that I won't have sex till I'm with someone I really, really trust and when i know I'm ready for such a big thing.

It's just a shame that not everyone sees it like that nowadays.

Brilliantly put.

People who lose there virginity to a one night stand or a 'bit on the side' will regret it later in life....everybody does.

Nice to know there's some quite intellectual people on here, who accept that losing there virginity is supposed to be a 'special moment between a bond of two people in love'(as my fiancee romantically put it) not just an event to show your friends your the king of the castle in the playground because you can put your dick in the local whore.

[-Snake-]

16, but she wa a tart lol

[rondo]

has anyone been watchin corrie lateley? (no, its not sad, its manly) , if your both ready and use protection, its alrite (according to tv)

[Bob!]

Lol, thats just goin with the flow of nowdays way o thinkin.

Not much o the old honor left anymore.

16 is about right for the earlyest age, 18 is reyt enough and whatever after that, but below 16 is kinda wrong as girls bodys are still physically devolopin around then, its not made for it lol, plus its just wrong tbh.

Whatever happens I dont think the age o consent should be lowered, be slapper city then.

[-Snake-]

Ya see, I blame corrie for the rising teen pregnancy rates..

[Bob!]

Lol aye.

I walk past my old junior school every mornin on the way to college or work and see all the mums droppin their kids off.

Thing is, in a few years its gunna be mostly young girls droppin their kids off to school lol. Not a very good view for the future.

[-Snake-]

England will expand and decide we no longer need the welsh and take over there so called "country" to put all the single mothers who are taking GCSE nitting...

All beacuse of Corrie *sigh*

[*Jess*]

To be blunt, I would never be able to forgive myself if I lost my virginity before 16.
I'm 15 now and I am not ready for it.
I will be 16 later on this year, but even if it is legal, I do not think I will be ready.
And my personal opinion is that I will still not be ready and be too young to lose my virginity any time in the next year or two.
Call me boring/stiff if you want, but that is the way I feel and I will not have sex before I am ready.
I will not trust an overly confident guy who is going round banging every girl he can lay his hands on.
And I will not trust someone who is not a good friend before, and I have made a judgement whether they treat people with respect and are not in relationships just for someone to bang.
Like the guy I am with now, he has had a lot of girlfriends in the past, all who lasted a month if they were lucky. And I knew that. And at first when I was considering whether I should go with him, that almost made me say no.
But then I got told by his best friend, who is a girl and who is also my own friend and I know I cant trust her, said that he was looking for a long term relationship but he just hadn't found that then.
but i am usually a really good judge of people and I knew I could trust him and he wouldn't want to force me into anything.
so I feel secure right now.
And I do not want children before I am settled with a good career and a husband and when its all planned and sorted so protection is a must.

[-Snake-]

To be blunt, I would never be able to forgive myself if I lost my virginity before 16.
I'm 15 now and I am not ready for it.
I will be 16 later on this year, but even if it is legal, I do not think I will be ready.
And my personal opinion is that I will still not be ready and be too young to lose my virginity any time in the next year or two.
Call me boring/stiff if you want, but that is the way I feel and I will not have sex before I am ready.
I will not trust an overly confident guy who is going round banging every girl he can lay his hands on.
And I will not trust someone who is not a good friend before, and I have made a judgement whether they treat people with respect and are not in relationships just for someone to bang.
Like the guy I am with now, he has had a lot of girlfriends in the past, all who lasted a month if they were lucky. And I knew that. And at first when I was considering whether I should go with him, that almost made me say no.
But then I got told by his best friend, who is a girl and who is also my own friend and I know I cant trust her, said that he was looking for a long term relationship but he just hadn't found that then.
but i am usually a really good judge of people and I knew I could trust him and he wouldn't want to force me into anything.
so I feel secure right now.
And I do not want children before I am settled with a good career and a husband and when its all planned and sorted so protection is a must.

Why make a big deal out of the first time? Its akward & crap, i'd rather be ready for some1 I really like rather then shite in bed....

(trying to cause a argument lol)

[Bob!]

Hmm nah, thats what ya work up to with the person, gives u both chance to explore then, and even better if ya know its not summat theyve already had, cause itl be special to them as well then.

[*Jess*]

Why make a big deal out of the first time? Its akward & crap, i'd rather be ready for some1 I really like rather then shite in bed....

(trying to cause a argument lol)
It depends on the person really.
and I wouldnt make a big deal out of it when the time came round. But I'm just saying I am not ready for it in the near future.
And it would make it more of a special experience.
if you were shite in bed anyway at least it wouldnt worry you for when the right person came along as you wouldn't know if you have never tried it before.
and, you see, thats the problem these days.
People don't think its a big deal, but it can end up life changing and it is basically the last thing towards adulthood. It's not a big joke you can just think "oh lets forget it now" and then you put it down to experience. but it has changed into that.

And I was speaking personally, and also talking about how I have to trust a guy and know they will not force me into things rather than be scared of feeling as if i have to do something.

[BleedBlack]

It is. It's meant to be so special and meant to mean alot but some people don't care about it and are happy to go ahead with it.

It's not 'meant' to be anything at all. It is meant to be whatever every individual wants for themselves.

If someone wants to just have sex cause it feels good, then that's what it's meant to be for them.

Sex is whatever each individual makes it for themself.

[Bob!]

True, just its kinda crap nearly everyone thinks that way lol.

Not much of teh old honor left.

To be able to be the one to give sumone something that theyve never had before, from noone else, and have them feel good from it well, to me thats a great thing.

Itd just not be as good if the person had already banged about 50 people, and you wa just doin it to get a bit outa it yaself. Its nothin new, nothin special, just givin yer own body up to sumone else who dunt even deserve it that much, and knowin that theyve given theirs to everyone else as well, how can you mean anythin special to em when even their own body dunt lol.

I know thats kinda me just bein kinda prejudice, especially with how everyone else is nowdays but, thats my view lol.

[-Snake-]

If ya young and ur both virgin's thats special, but sex is sex, its a natural thing to want to get your end away....

[Mamfy]

It's not 'meant' to be anything at all. It is meant to be whatever every individual wants for themselves.

If someone wants to just have sex cause it feels good, then that's what it's meant to be for them.

Sex is whatever each individual makes it for themself.

I wasn't saying what everyone should feel, I was just expressing what I think it is, like so many other people on here.

[Pearson]

It's not 'meant' to be anything at all. It is meant to be whatever every individual wants for themselves.

If someone wants to just have sex cause it feels good, then that's what it's meant to be for them.

Sex is whatever each individual makes it for themself.

Best point Iv heard the whole argument. No-one can say sex should be anything as at the end of the day, sex is sex.

[Ben]

have u heard of n injection thats works the same as the pill??

hadnt heard of that but you can use a contraceptive patch on your arm aswell, like a nicorette patch.

my friend just gave birth, last week. she's 14.
she wasn't on the pill cos she "wasn't sleeping around at the time" but they used a condom, but as we know, they don't always work.

yeh girls are a lot worse than guys, there are way more shy guys out there than there are shy girls. obviously there are a lot of man-whores, but the ladies are worse! there are lots of slutty girls in the schools, they go for older guys who can drive (hehe i had a lesson today!!!) and although (most of them) tend not to broadcast it, they are doing it and telling all their girl friends.

[Brianna.]

The injection makes you retain a shitload of water. You puff up.

[Mikhael]

past experinces bri ^^^ sounds fun :D

[perfect_death]

i am 15 and i lost mine when i was 14 i am still wiv him and have no intention in leaving him ne time soon i was wiv him for 2 years b4 we did it and i dont think that wot we did was rong

[-Snake-]

i am 15 and i lost mine when i was 14 i am still wiv him and have no intention in leaving him ne time soon i was wiv him for 2 years b4 we did it and i dont think that wot we did was rong

DAMN RIGHT! :ninja*:
And don't let ANYBODY tell you otherwise!

[Bob!]

Well I think its still a lil early but its more understandable if its just with him and youve been together 2 years and still are.

Just outa interest, how olds ya bf?

[_brightlywound_]

I'm 15 and a virgin. I've promised myself that I would atleast make sure that I love the person enough before engaging in sexual intercourse.

[Mamfy]

ME too :)

:)

[Bob!]

Well at least some confidence in humanity is restored.

Be better if it wasnt so rare though lol.

[Mamfy]

I have always stuck by my guns :)

[-Snake-]

Oh come on bob! Is this beacuse you havn't got laid yet!?!
There is nothing wrong with sex under 16, as long as its good fun!

and first times!? there aqward and un-pleasant why is that so special?

[Bob!]

Oh come on bob! Is this beacuse you havn't got laid yet!?!

Possibly half o it tbh, but cant say fer sure lol. http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif (http://img356.imageshack.us/img356/2224/sleep.gif)

Its just how I think and feel thats all, cant help that. Of course I dont expect (or want) others to be anythin like me but still, I think the generations of the present are goin for the worst, id prefer it if most people had a lil more self honor at least.

[Mamfy]

Do you not think that's what I'm like Bobo?

[Bob!]

Sorry I meant most, not everyone, ya know what I mean lol.

[Mamfy]

I do now merci

[BleedBlack]

I feel that girls are alot more likely to say no to a guy, than a guy is to a girl. I recon it is really uncommon for a guy to turn down a girl..

[JaeSwift]

I was 14 she was 17... we went out with each other for 2 years. :)

[Bob!]

I feel that girls are alot more likely to say no to a guy, than a guy is to a girl. I recon it is really uncommon for a guy to turn down a girl..

Thats cause your whole minds dont get totally corrupted if someone came up and offered u sex while strokin ur leg.

U lasses get like that when pissed yeah, but even if were sober its still the same effect for the blokes lol.

[Brianna.]

I resent that last statement.

Not all girls turn loose when we're drunk.

[iaxa]

omg i know someone who is pregnant at the age of 14 . she also got knocked up with a 23 year old im like yuck and i asked her is he helping you raise it she sed nah im getting an abortion. i feel so sorry for her . her pearents must have done some things to her or sumthing

[danni4kevin]

i was 15 and so was e. we used protection and were still 2getha

[zmgharrypotter]

I'm a virgin.
I'm not in any hurry to get rid of it, either.

[iaxa]

keep that well i dont wanna loose my virginty until im like 50 ... or if some steals it i will shoot em .... but then again who would wanna try and rape me ... my ass is like a hairy cheese grater ...

[Mamfy]

How pleasant....

[Bob!]

keep that well i dont wanna loose my virginty until im like 50 ... or if some steals it i will shoot em .... but then again who would wanna try and rape me ... my ass is like a hairy cheese grater ...

Too much info, and id say thats a bit TOO late but, each to their own lol :P

[Brianna.]

keep that well i dont wanna loose my virginty until im like 50 ... or if some steals it i will shoot em .... but then again who would wanna try and rape me ... my ass is like a hairy cheese grater ...



Oh man, I totally thought you were a girl...haha. I'm really sorry.

[iaxa]

lolz
it alright

[Mamfy]

Ahhhh shite, me too :S

I'm so sorry as well.

It is the picture and the name combined I think.

[-nikki-]

Nah, I'm still a virgin and damn proud of it. Everyday I walk to school, getting called an emo slut or whatever and I have people walking up to be (strangers, i might add) asking if I could go to their house Friday night for a 'sleepover'.
I guess everyone starts rumors and now apparently I've slept with around 23 guys, all of whom I barely know. I plan to keep it until I'm 16 at least, in a relationship with a guy who I love, and with a guy who Ive already started to make plans with.

</3 nikki

[iaxa]

wdf why dose every1 think im a chick maybe its a calling ... (theres something about Iaxa)

[crzybrat469]

i was 16 and the guy was 17..

[iaxa]

Ahhhh shite, me too :S

I'm so sorry as well.

It is the picture and the name combined I think.

THAT's IT IM CHANGING MY AVATAR!!!!

[Mamfy]

I'm really sorry. It just looks girly...

[iaxa]

dont worry about in year seven i used to have long hair. I could put it in a pony tail.i got called a young girl once . It was so funny.

[Silver_Bullet]

I still havent and neither has my Girlfriend, we just decided on our own that it would be better to wait.

[Bob!]

Bit of mature thinkin there, good on ya :)

[Silver_Bullet]

Thanks Man.Cool Signature, I like it.

[Sammi]

I haven't yet and I'm proud of it. I've found a guy I like and I think he's the one, but I'm waiting for him :D

[iaxa]

thats good ... nothing wrong with being a virgin.

[Mamfy]

Nope. That's why I'm sticking by it :)

The law being not allowed to have sex under the age of 16, mean you can't do foreplay and stuff like that?

Me and some mates were talking about this today.

[God.]

...as you do.

Doubt it.

I think it's just penetrative sex.

[Bob!]

Its as Callum said.

Because thats what ya mainly get pregnant from.

[Mamfy]

Well Callum, my friends are immature and have to revert to talking about sex because they have nothing else to say.

It gets a little tiresome *yawns*

[lana_homeschool]

I'm 15, I haven't had sex but I have a brand new boyfriend (the first bf that I've ever been in love with) that touched my theigh (YUM O-M-G) so maybe soon! :)

[Mamfy]

He touched your thigh?

[Pearson]

I still havent and neither has my Girlfriend, we just decided on our own that it would be better to wait.

But your 17?

[Sammi]

Age doesn't matter. What matters the most is that you're comfortable with eachother, and even then it doesn't mean you have to do it.

[Pearson]

But 17, if he's got the chance, take it!

[NorthernIreland]

Im 15 and I have a kid, my partner is 16 and he has left me now as he can't cope with the responsibilities of parenthood. Even though I love my son to bits, i would recommend anyone wait before they lose their virginity

[iaxa]

I'm 15, I haven't had sex but I have a brand new boyfriend (the first bf that I've ever been in love with) that touched my theigh (YUM O-M-G) so maybe soon! :)

well i hope your not rushing into this ... he could be just trying to get into your pants and then leave aka a one night stand ... i have seen it happen to heaps of chicks i no.

[lana_homeschool]

well i hope your not rushing into this ... he could be just trying to get into your pants and then leave aka a one night stand ... i have seen it happen to heaps of chicks i no.

lets hope he likes my pant then :( but anyway we kissed further yesterday afternoon and i sat on his knee with his leg between my legs *gush gush!* lol hes spectacular :)

[Amy Lvz Daz]

I was 15 and my boyfriend was 17, wer still together a year later

[SG's lil babe]

Well, I don't want to have sex until I am at the legal age and with someone I love and who loves me back.

I know of more GUYS doing it underage than girls I think:S

I think more guys boast about it and less girls talk about it

[Mamfy]

That's true. but I know girls in my year who boast about it. I don't understand.

But you're right there.

[megz]

i lost it at the age of 17
i lost it to a one nite stand, i knew wt i was doin n i do regret it now i wish id lost it to the person i used to be with, and still want to be with

[VampyrMaggot]

i lst my virginity 5 day before my 16th and my partner was also 15. we'r now both 16, and still together :D

[Charley]

i lost my virginity when i was 12 but i wish i had waited for the right one

[claire]

12? jeez thats a bit too young! :P But there gerring younger still i mean u read about 10 year olds `getting their way with lasses` n it's like wtf i was still playing with me barbies at that age!

was you with the guy/girl u was lost it with?

[iaxa]

i got it planned
im gonna loose my virginity when i graduate from college!

[Mamfy]

How old are you when you graduate iaxa?

[clueless]

i take it, age of 50 is now out of the window ;)

[iaxa]

How old are you when you graduate iaxa?

17 from high
depending on what course i do in college 4-6 years why?
so any where between 21-23 hopefully and depend in what country i go to . i wanna go to canada and study.

[Brianna.]

18 and still have my V-card.


Yeah...I'm cool, i know.

[Mamfy]

I really respect you for that Bri :)

[iaxa]

i take it, age of 50 is now out of the window ;)

yeah . i guess it is . ohh well that was fun...while it lasted!!!

[~Chris~]

Im still a virgin (14y and 11 months),but my gf gave me a blowjob

[richardsbaby07]

i was 15 nd the guy was 15 as well

[Foo]

wow 245 replies on this thread, huge!
I tell you what, you guys aren't shy in revealing your secrets ;)

[Sweet_Cherry]

Ok the thing is that most parents would kinda get rly pissed when they find out that their daughter/son r having sex rite?...

But the weird thing is that my friend's mom LETS her have sex, she even gets her "the pill" and gives her permission to have it wenever she wants, wat do u think of that??O_O

[Chris]

I wish my mum was like that! lol.

[Lindsay]

Ok the thing is that most parents would kinda get rly pissed when they find out that their daughter/son r having sex rite?...

But the weird thing is that my friend's mom LETS her have sex, she even gets her "the pill" and gives her permission to have it wenever she wants, wat do u think of that??O_O

she probably knows that she can't stop her from having sex, and just wants her to be safe. in a way, thats a really good thing because your friend won't be scared to go to her mom and ask questions about stuff.

[Mamfy]

I agrew with the above ^^

[Luke]

I would never let me 14 year daughter go around sleeping with lads.

Just wrong.